i am over than 25 but i diden't know that how would i start having sex with my wife i had olso red kamasutra but i haven't gave any good result i need help so please let me know what is the first second or therd steps i am very shy and there are very restrictions in my home so i can't se blu film etc
so please help....................................
2007-01-30 20:02:47 · 11 answers · asked by Rishabhdeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't worry. Just relax and enjoy. Be good to one another and you'll figure it ALL out.
2007-01-30 20:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there are restrictions you or she must be living with parents or family, but this will not be a good start to your marriage. you need to spend quality time on the privacy of your sex life, so i would advise find a place of your home as soon as you can. your married now, and have no reason or obligation to be living with your/her family.
secondly you sound like a virgin. if thats the case, the best way forward sexually is to give each other a cuddle. perhaps put some soft music on to begin with and dim the lights low. slowly caress each other and then things will go from there. just remember to be yourself and let things happen naturally. you could always let her guide you in what she likes and wants to happen. perhaps talking about things beforehand might help. or just go with the flow. feelings take over when were in the heat of passion, and normally work out for themselves. you could also give each other a gentle massage beforehand to get you in the mood. good luck!!
2007-01-31 04:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by emzc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a very nice room lite up with some candle, play your role as husband by kissing her neck and do some touching here and there, just play with her hair or hand make sure the so smell good and clean, as you take her shirt off kiss her a little bit here and there. the most importent thing to do is listen to your wife need, sometime they need wild sex and some need clasic sex. well best of luck
2007-01-31 04:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mohd G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do NOT go to porn for sex advice, it's not at all realistic. Find a friend who is married and ask them for advice so you can have an actual conversation and ask questions about it, better than getting advice over the internet from us yahoos.
2007-01-31 04:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've got the internet for goodness sake!!! cant see a blue movie at home? You have the internet!!!who needs a blue movie, 95% of the internet is pornography, do a search through google or sometning like that.
you must be kidding....
please be joking.....
please....
2007-01-31 04:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should first relax your nerves,just talk to her to relax both of you,u can then cuddle her and gently touch her face,kiss her and man! ur natural hormones will kick in and please there's not hard and fast rule just be gentle. PLS dont forget a nice background slow music
2007-01-31 04:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by alley G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and enjoy you seld cuddle up nad stuff and you do just fine.
2007-01-31 04:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by animefunlover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can get on the internet, you can go watch a porn. Seriously, use a proxy server if your country blocks it.
2007-01-31 04:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOU DONT NEED TO LEARN ANYTHING GO TO BED WITH HER AND START WHTS COME IN YOUR MIND.
2007-01-31 04:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by MAHI 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how cool you question is ........ lol
why don't you just ask your wife, ask her to have sex with you
2007-01-31 11:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by GonE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋