I've known her for more than a year now and still nothing is happening between us. She says we can go out this weekend but I know it wont happen because of all the other times it didn't work. I give up.
2007-01-30 19:55:32 · 20 answers · asked by lmao 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You yourself have answered this question that you are tired now..so better leave her..sometimes what happens that we don't care for someones who cares for us so much we take that person for granted although we know inwardly that we need that person and what is his/her importance in our life i guess she is doing the same thing with you that is taking you for granted so better started ignoring her if she comes back she is yours but she does not she wasn't yours and don't deserve you..good luck
2007-01-30 20:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well are you convinced that she knows how you feel?
Firstly, make very very sure that she knows exactly how you feel about her. Regardless of what you've said to her or done for her in the past... spell it out to her one more time. (Some girls need a guy to actually say the words. Some of them are insecure and sometimes unsure of what your exact intentions are and that might cause her to pull away a bit).
However, once you have told her how you feel and she knows exactly what your intentions are - then leave the choice to her. Make it clear to her that this will be the last time that you "chase" after her. Make sure she knows that you would do anything for her and that she is worth fighting for but that you are not going to keep fighting for nothing. Be gentle, but assertive. And most importantly mean what you say when you say it to her.
She will either realise what she has in you and start playing the game, or she will make the choice that you are not what she wants... either way, you will both be better off knowing.
Good Luck
2007-01-30 20:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year at this time and era my bro is jus too much. She probably thinks you are too whipped to stop chasing her. From this minute onwards, say nothing or make moves on her, we now want her to do the chasing, hear me son? Start talking to other girls, but dont be overzealous to the point of making it look like you want to make her jealous coz our plan will back fire on us, Meet and talk to other girls with the hope of finding someone who will appreciatte you without keeping you in the shadows like a broken down vehicle. This weekend is off, dont call her to confirm the date or when she calls you dont ask about it, jus be short and brief and tell her you are busy and will call her later and , dont call either. This weekend to her is jus a repetition of what she been doing to your poor soul the last one year. You are the man now and put aside whatever feelings you have for her. From this day on she will do the chasing and you will show her how valuable you are and she been treating a diamond like broken glass. You did you part and now its her turn and if she fullfills it you can take her, if she does not. Move on,there too many chiks in this world
2007-01-30 20:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, sharks can chase dolphins and most of the time the dolphins are going to get away. They are fast, they maneuver well, and no matter how determined the shark, sometimes they just have to submit to the fact that they met their match.
If you have been "chasing" this girl for quite some time, and you have not had any success, chances are the girl does not want to be caught. If she is just being evasive with you for fun, then I would question if this is really the kind of girl you want to be with. If she is this way on something this simple, how is she going to be on something complex? She obviously is not being upfront or honest with you, but rather toying with you, it seems.
I think there are other girls out there who might be more worthwhile pursuing, and worthy of your attention. The right one for you is going to be receptive of you, not evasive.
Move on my friend, that hunt is over. Find better hunting grounds!
2007-01-30 20:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by C J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is time to give up. If chasing for a year hasn't made it happen take a step back and move on. You might jsut find when the attention isn't there for her anymore she comes looking for you!
2007-01-30 20:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the best thing you can do. Go to some where by your self for the week end. Ask some one else out. Right now you are showing her you are hard up and if no one else wants you why should she. You need to play hard to get. Better yet go and look for some one that will love you for who you are. The real question should be put to the mirror. ask your self why am I doing this to my self.
2007-01-30 20:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bruce M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple, you are tired of chasing after her so STOP. By doing that you would have strategically placed the ball in her court,if she doesn't make a move or hint you in any way that she likes you then move on.
2007-01-30 20:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by bong_jyde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find that if you stop chasing her, and stop trying to get with her, she'll miss it or she'll think that you don't want her anymore...and then maybe she will go in for the chase, just wait and see what she does when she realises you're not chasing after her anymore, its the best way, and then you'll see how she truly feels about you.
2007-01-30 20:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if nothing happens on the weekend u go out with her then just stop chasing after her nd look for somebody who is actually interested in you.
2007-01-30 20:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by cassyforsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, obviously she's not into you, otherwise she would have picked up (or she has, but she's playing with you, which is worse). So the issue is not with her but with you: do you want to keep at it, knowing that the situation is going to stay like this (no reason it shld change!) or do you want to move on?
My advice: go out, look around, have fun... because as nice and pretty as she might be, I don't think she's the one...
2007-01-30 20:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by AussieJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋