Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

Hi all, iam anil here presently working in sharjah. at the moment i dont have a family status, but i would like to call my wife here through dependent visa. pls advice me on what basis a dependent visa will be issued.

Is salary certificate a must. and also i dont have a marriage certificate as my marriage is under special marriage act. we got married through arya samaj and i can furnish the certificate of marriage given by them.will this certificate be accepted by the uae governmetn. or will a sworn affidavit will be sufficient to get the visa. kinldy give a complete details on this.

also pls furnish me with what type of visa will be sutiable for her to stay in uae and get a job too.

my wife passport was made before our marriage and it still holds the unmarried status. pls guide me to wht changes must be made in the passport too.

waiting for ur valueble suggestions

thanking you.

2007-01-30 19:40:58 · 1 answers · asked by gulmu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you still have feelings for an ex (who wants you back) but you are seeing someone new.

2007-01-30 19:36:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And would you consider doing it now? I think that all women should learn to take care of themselves as it can be a horrible world out there.

2007-01-30 19:36:25 · 25 answers · asked by anon4nw 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean to offend anyone here. But my and my Mother don't really get along. I am 23/m and she is so overprotective and she smothers me to death. How am I supposed to tell her that I don't love her? I mean I do "like" my Mom but I don't love her. I appreciate some of the stuff that she does though. I am not happy with her ill conceived right wing ultra conservative politics. How am I supposed to get along with her? I'm thinking about moving accross the country in order to limit contact with her.

2007-01-30 19:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by AviTech 3 in Family

plz help me gays which girls i choose i confused

2007-01-30 19:33:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

loving some body with all possible intensity and waiting for her for next birth.

2007-01-30 19:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by upendra sharma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean in realtionship...

2007-01-30 19:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 19:28:47 · 23 answers · asked by lea4eva 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in my first serious relationship and Id like to hear what others have to say.
I mean, how do you know you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody?
I know people will say "If you have to ask, youre not in love."
But see, Im the sort of person who questions everything. Ive sheltered myself and finally took a chance after high school and Im a little lost.
Even if I felt I was truly in love Id wonder just for the sake of wondering.
Its hard to believe in love in a world where the average marraige doesnt last.
They probily thought they were in love. And look what happened.
I think time will tell. My boyfriend is my best friend. And I think I will only love him more and more.
There isnt anything I could conplain about. Were good for eachother.
I think over time there will be tests. And times where I will stop and say wow, I really love him.
But this early in our relationship and still adapting from the independant life I am nothing but questions.

2007-01-30 19:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by Bunnie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

getting scared, stress ,more fights ???? is that normal before getting married?

2007-01-30 19:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My father was never around for my childhood, times spent with him consisted of us being alone for his job was more important, my mother yelling and blaming me for things I hadnt done, abusing me, watching my brother and his friend kick and punch me on the ground and only walking away, saying I dressed like a bum, & when worked at her work thought she would get a raise for them thinking she was poor in the way i was dressed. always being an embarressment to her, and a burden to the family. Being neglected when young for wanting to talk about my problems, then later bugged until i talked only to be ignored & left alone for sharing my feelings. I have always been like a toy in the family that was only played with when wanted, other than that, I was only a shadow, & tooken care of cause they had to, but didnt want to. I am now blamed & am a problem for being depressed & not wanting anything from my family, for they dont understand why I have low self esteem & think & act the way I do

2007-01-30 19:27:52 · 8 answers · asked by Ellen B 1 in Family

both of them are speaking to me and i dunno what's what

2007-01-30 19:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a guy for 2 yrs and he never loved me cause he was abusive. but he said he love me and I know that if someone puts thier hands on you that that is not love but I was so in love with that person that I stayed. well finally I got out of that situation and left the state I have been out the relationship for 5 months now.

2007-01-30 19:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by kita 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 19:25:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you always want commitment, why do some many of y'all go to the club and get yo freak on?? I mean wheres the commitment in that??
You know what I think it is, I think its because within every women there is actually two women.. One that society has made to be this person who lives by these rules and cant do these things and has to act a certain way. The do's and dont's that keep your inner self in check...
But the natural woman....that's the woman right there at the core... where you keep your most exciting memories... where you ponder fantasies... daydreams... amazing possibilities... the things you'd do if no one were watching and no one... even your best friends... would ever, ever know about. Thats what I think... What do you think?

2007-01-30 19:25:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like, she was kinda hairy, always wore hiking boots, a dora the explorer bag, messy hair, makes ugly faces even though shes kinda pretty. then suddenly shes hairfree, combed shiny hair, wears make up n that? would u still ask her out even though she was ugly last yr?

2007-01-30 19:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by revengeofthemisfit 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, recently jus break up with my bf less than a week and now with a guy who is 10 years older and i'm going to be 21 this year. I'm confused whether i agreed on to this relationship in an inpulse. This guy is very good to me, financially stable with very good career and education, average looking, drives and hopes to settle down. I find it a bit weird to be with a guy whereby our age gap is quite big. But he said age really doesn't matters cos he loves me. Personally i felt that there is a possiblity that my parents and relatives will object and feel that we won't work out. I'm not sure whether if i'm finding a substitute for myself as i really don't want to hurt anybody becos of me.
I need advice on how should i face it seriously??

2007-01-30 19:23:36 · 19 answers · asked by no name 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just your typical nice white guy who, from time to time, can dress well if I need to. I am flattered by this observation that my friends have made, but in all honesty, I have never held myself in the same esteem as that of a pimp. I know how much manliness that I have, but it is not pimp status...I don't think.

2007-01-30 19:22:25 · 14 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a little heavy... bout 30 pounds over wieght, and I have just started dating a man that has only dated women that were very skinny or very well built. I put on my wieght about 3 years ago, use to were a 9 or smaller and now am in a 16. I don't like it and plan on loosing the weight, but why would a man date only those kind of girls and then date me? His only answer to my question is that I am very sweet and nice. He never says that he thinks I am sexy or pretty. He has seen pictures of me from 3 years ago and asked why I would "let my self go", and I did tell him. He also said he would help me get back in shape... But my main question is, Why would he go from dating onlly skinny girls and then be interested in me?

2007-01-30 19:20:04 · 23 answers · asked by next.... 2 in Singles & Dating

How many of you are in a long distance relationship, does it actually work..

2007-01-30 19:18:21 · 16 answers · asked by sexybabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 19:18:18 · 15 answers · asked by Rohan 1 in Singles & Dating

If guys say they love their girl wouldn't they do antyhing to spend time with her and or even do the things that she would like to do. Or even go to the club with them..

2007-01-30 19:16:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is going on between them?
I think they are secretly lovers. Why else would she be so agressive?

2007-01-30 19:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married because he might be getting stationed in Germany. We are very in love and neather or us can deal with not being with eachother. So when we were in Indiana at Christmas with his family he said" we will go to the court house if I get the job because I wont go without you." But now it looks like he is going to be getting the job and it stresses me out and scares me cause he will be gone for 2 years. When he told me I stayed strong and I was kidding and I said you cant go without me and he said well you cant go. So I dont know if he is just saying that or if he is going to propose and hes just trying to throw me off. Please help. Let me know what you guys think! Thank you

2007-01-30 19:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married because he might be getting stationed in Germany. We are very in love and neather or us can deal with not being with eachother. So when we were in Indiana at Christmas with his family he said" we will go to the court house if I get the job because I wont go without you." But now it looks like he is going to be getting the job and it stresses me out and scares me cause he will be gone for 2 years. When he told me I stayed strong and I was kidding and I said you cant go without me and he said well you cant go. So I dont know if he is just saying that or if he is going to propose and hes just trying to throw me off. Please help. Let me know what you guys think! Thank you

2007-01-30 19:14:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My 5 yr old is burning up with fever I'm not sure how high cuz she recently broke my thermometer but shes really hot and her teeth are chattering and shes shaking like shes freezing but she has socks on and sweatpants and a sweater and covered up well and I've already given her tylenol but its not helping is there any other way I can bring her temp down its 3 am here so her dr is closed now .please help thanks so much in advance.

2007-01-30 19:13:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This question is for guys and girls.

I'd like you to share with all of us (I'm a grandpa, so I already have a few ideas on the subject) whether you know if someone has a crush on you and what you do about it.

Sadly, when I was young I missed a few opportunities because I was too shy to act on my own crushes or to act on crushes some girls had on me.

How do you guys handle it? Share with me and with each other. Let's knock a few of the barriers down between you young folks and get some of you together who like each other and are too shy to say so.

2007-01-30 19:13:09 · 7 answers · asked by Warren D 7 in Singles & Dating

And therefor reject them?

2007-01-30 19:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 19:12:05 · 5 answers · asked by jurel21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wonder WHERE can I find proper man who is quite intelligent and doesn't think only about shagging... And also who is caring and has good sense of humour???

2007-01-30 19:09:28 · 33 answers · asked by vikingsrose 3 in Other - Family & Relationships