My husband and I were together 8 yrs and married for 2. During the marriage we had a daughter. 15 mths ago, I told him to leave because he was verbally abusive, controlling, a liar and unsupportive financially. It was a pretty miserable marriage .We separated. The day after he left, I discovered I was pregnant with our 2nd child. I didn't think I could cope, so I begged him to return. He refused which made me angry and more upset. I was very sad but managed to get through the pregnancy, looking after my daughter and working really hard in my own business. My kids are now 23mths and 8 mths. I have just started to feel strong and happy. Now, my ex says he has changed, realises that he treated me terribly and wants to give our marriage another go. He is having counselling. I have recently developed a friendship with another man- I am interested to take things further with this man but also feel that I should give my ex the chance to prove whether he has changed or not. What do you think?
2007-02-01
23:52:37
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Marriage & Divorce