I have this crush in my class he is cute in my opinion and so he doe notice me we are not such good friends but i've seen him looking at me and i looked and we both turned away at the same time and i like hiom should i ask him if he likes me or not or should i leave our relatiopnship as it is now?
2007-02-01 23:57:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-02 00:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by are you Mirror? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A normal boy in the world is normally instinctively drawn towards a girl, and a girl can always find a strategy to attract a boy even more, to attract him like magnete attracts iron.
In any case you could try to place yourself nearer to him and wait and see if he will speak to you. Otherwise you may by-pass your shiness and speak to him first. Maybe you have some school subjects you might want to speak together about. The attraction you have for each other might make this easier, and this might make the attraction you have for each other flow easier.
While sexual attraction is general, common skills and professional interests may be quite precious and so give additional corroboration to being together and to loving each other.
2007-02-02 08:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. He says he likes you. Case closed. You are done. But, fearing rejection, can you even do that? If only things were so simple. I'll tell you this. Just ask him. This will save you a lot of time. If he says no, then you can understand that he doesn't and may not even after knowing you for a bit of time. Therefore, it will be him who regrets later on when he falls for you in return, granted you guys will hang out and stuff... Maybe not, since if he does reject you, it will be too embarassing... So what you can do is this....
"Do you like me?"
"No."
"I knew it! I don't like you either." Haha!
"Do you like me?"
"Yes, as a friend."
"Me too. I was worried because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." Saved!
If he says he likes you in a way that he likes you likes you and not as friend, then you've just scored yourself your dream guy.
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
Signs that he is a player
He is a smooth talker. He is very comfortable around you.
He places his hands on you with ease.
Every other girl likes him.
Just be careful.
There are many more signs, but anyway, just go with your heart, take care of yourself, and let things happen naturally. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
2007-02-02 10:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him, try working at it slowly, try becoming closer friends first, become comfortable with him and him with you....dont be afraid of just becoming friends for now, when the time comes, the two of you will hit it off...
2007-02-02 08:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by latinkid7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to torture yourself,try the first move give him a good flirty smile and if he smiles back then,start talking to him thats the only way for you to get to know him first
2007-02-02 08:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him?
Why leave it to someone else to get YOUR man. Don't be obsessed but, be you. If you like him and you know that there is a chance that he likes you, gurl...... go get your man!!!!
2007-02-02 08:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Army Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to lose ask him but dont do it duriing class he may not give yo ua straight answer. but yeah he likes you if he stares at you ...good luck!
2007-02-02 08:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Trista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a wild shoot you have nothing to lose before someone grab him you better grab him first. he is to shy to meet you face to face so why not you
2007-02-02 08:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by zloewez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be shy.Maby you should make the first move.
2007-02-02 08:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Triplndy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither.. don't ask him right away that would just be so sudden.. first be friends.. get to know him.. plan study dates.. or simple things like that.. and leaving ur reltionship like that, honey you like this guy dont you? start as friends.. talk to him.. like u talk to maybe ur guy friends.. ask wat he likes.. stuff like that.. and always believe and pray.. :)
2007-02-02 08:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by moose_uncanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note
2007-02-02 07:59:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋