i need some good way to get even with someone for invading my space and help if anyone wants to give it some guy tried to take my wife and break up my family and i need to pay him back for all the pain im feeling
2007-02-01 23:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he lives in a house:
Wait till he goes on vacation or to work, make sure no-one is home, put super glue (Industrial) on a key put the key in the keyhole and break the key.
Then put super glue on the edges of his doors and windows so they won't open.
If he has a yard with a garden hose, you can slide the hose in through an opening either in the basement, or bathroom window or any window and then turn the water on. imagine him comming home after vacation or work and see the entire house is flooded.
You can also turn off their Utilities.
See if you can get someone else to do it for you, that way no-one can pin it on you!
2007-02-02 00:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by DECEMBER 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
rise above the fray young man. there is no need to get even or strike back at someone for having done something painful to you. have you heard of karma? it follows the old adage "what goes around comes around," if you were to get even with this person, sometime in your life your getting even will come back to haunt you and you will see just what it is like.
take the high road. enjoy your wife and family ten times more than you did before. that is the best revenge. living happily with your loved ones and if you can - move. get out of his sight, area and presence.
take the pain you are feeling and turn it into a positive. take your wife for a walk - this will release stress you may be feeling and it will make a romantic time period for the two of you. allow for the venting of your anger/pain. find someone to talk with - a therapist, pastor perhaps. get rid of the pain someone - but not by striking back.
your ego will heal. it just takes time.
2007-02-02 01:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. He will get his in the end. You take the high road and just sit back and watch the fireworks . I have been waiting 4 years , and I am now just starting to see a payback. I had a friend that had to wait 12 years, but it came back in a double dose of pain for the person. Good Luck and have patience. Your get even will happen and all you have to do is wait.
2007-02-02 00:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd make goddamned sure he needed a new set of tires for his vehicles atleast once a month. If your wife is still with you, and will help by providing a statement, you could make the guy's life miserable by filing a "alienation of affection" type lawsuit against him, sue him for $50 thousand or $100 thousand, he'll have to get an attorney to defend the lawsuit and that will cost him money to defend it.
What i did once when i had this problem with a now ex wife, i filed that kind of lawsuit against the guy, but only was awarded $5,000, also, made sure they both needed new tires on every vehicle they had. Also, keyed every one of their vehicles. And to top it off one night i busted all the headlights and taillights and windows out of every vehicle. They couldn't go anywhere unless they had somebody watching the cars.
Since it was a rural area, it was easy to run them off the road out in the middle of no where. I always had witnesses backing me up that i was no where near them at the time of these things were happening.
I also would turn their water off at the meter at the street, turn their gas off, and power. I made thier lives a living H ell for about a year then i requested a transfer to another part of the country.
2007-02-02 00:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally--I do not believe in pay-backs. Life is too short. Your pain will slowly diminish and let life deal with him. Hopefully this will make you an even stronger person. You do not see this now--but in time you might. Life has a way of dealing blows to all Good luck.
2007-02-02 05:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend and she wants revenge on these people and she wants someone to go to three different houses and scare these people. She is wondering does anyone knows anybody that can be a rough neck or in a gang that is from long beach, San Bernadino, Moreno valley, Los Angeles, Compton, Riverside, Whittier, El Monte, and different state such as ATL, and so on. These people are about 5'5, 5'6, and 6'1, Use your fists and someone give them a taste of their own medicine for what they did to her. MY FRIEND DOES NOT WANT NO ONE TO USE NO WEAPONS. NO WEAPONS. My friend wants to get back at them for something they did to her. The witch and the Ho called the cops on her for no reason. She did not do nothing to them. They throw her out of the apartment for no reason. She wants someone to get back them for what they did to her. My friend don't have no where to go and a place to stay. My friend will pay someone to do the job and get revenge on these people. My friend actually wrote a list for the things they did to her and she wants someone to do the same thing what they did to her. My email address janice.wilkes.921@facebook.com. The other person who kick us out of the house. I want someone to do the same thing what they did to her and boyfriend. This apt who called the cops for no reason and she wants them to pay for what they did to her. She will pay someone to do the job.
Qualifications: My friend wants person has to be 6'3 to 6'5, 180 - 300 lbs, SOMEONE THAT IS A MAN AND SOMEONE THAT IS SERIOUS TO DO THE JOB. Someone that is a bad ***, that knows someone that is a gang member. My friend don't care where are you from, as long if the person can do the job. She just wants someone to get back at them what they did to her.
2013-12-08 16:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Imeon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember "what comes around, goes around". Whether or not you believe in Karma, the same thing will happen to him. You just sit back and enjoy the show!
2007-02-01 23:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sort of feeling is not conducive to good relationships. By following this policy of tit for tat u will be exposing urself to situations which may not be to ur liking. It might be worth the whille to wait for an opportune time.
2007-02-02 00:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two wrongs never make a right. Don't lower yourself to their level. What goes around, comes around - let karma settle the score for you.
2007-02-02 00:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude you need to let it go. Gettting even is never good. Just remember WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
2007-02-02 02:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋