Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

I sometimes babysit my roommate's two kids at night while she is working (less than 2 hours). Actually, I don't do anything because two kids are sleeping. Also, my roommate often goes to the bar and come back in the morning (maybe twice a week). I get paid $5 for each babysitting not hourly. My roommate says I don't do anything because the kids are sleeping, so she doesn't pay me hourly. I understand that I don't do anything but being at home and sleeping until she comes back at 5 am. However, if I am not here, she can't go out even her kids are only sleeping. So I feel like I should get paid hourly. I am very convenient roommate for her because I don't say anything. But I don't want to do this anymore. I feel like I am used. However, I feel bad to get paid hourly because I don't do anything but just sleeping. What should I do? Please help me.

2007-02-01 22:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by plmeriacharm 1 in Friends

Why should i have to pay csa money when i cant even get access to see him.

2007-02-01 22:03:41 · 16 answers · asked by paignton sportsman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 22:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by lollipop 1 in Singles & Dating

Married my husband (who came from Turkey to the UK)19 years ago, didn't know that he was 13 years younger ( told me 8 years) and didn't know that his father a womaniser had left the home and tha my husband would be completely responsible for his mother and sister. I can cope with him financially supporting them, but its difficult to understand the emotional attachment he has to them. Last year I found out he was cheating and he eventually moved out to his own place. He said he had enough of commitment and responsibilities (I can understand). I have been patient and loving to him and pointed out that he doesn't have to feel responsible for me or our daughter because we are capable. He comes to our house 3/4 per week and we carry on as a couple but things are different now. He has gone to Turkey for 3 weeks because he wants to buy his mother a bigger place but only phones home every 3 days. Feel it is not enough am reluctant to phone him don't want to seem to be checking up on him

2007-02-01 22:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by jospinelli 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, : ignoring one child's fault where the other gets in trouble for the similar mistake,
they smile more upon seeing their favourite child,
Shouldnt the love be equal between all the their children?

2007-02-01 22:00:54 · 31 answers · asked by Ascetic 3 in Family

2007-02-01 22:00:08 · 11 answers · asked by Peter 1 in Singles & Dating

he left and he lied bout goin back to his ex now he tells me he only went back cause he had no where to go! and we wasnt gettin on! and she is lettin him stay in little boys bed???????????

2007-02-01 21:59:56 · 17 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi girls i want to know something please help. I have a friend. i like her very much, i am not sure of what she feels, but i would like to tell u a incident that happened recently. We had been to a function many of our friends were with us too. just as the function got over every one was leaving many of the girls even went, but she was waiting. Then even i started to leave just then even she said goodbye to everyone else and came along with me. apart from that she also waited for me at the bus stop until i took the bus. Throughout i have been afraid to express my feelings to her. But one thing is for sure that i love her very much. Please tell me what should i do? help me does she also feel the same for me? tell me please

2007-02-01 21:59:44 · 5 answers · asked by yudi k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 21:56:41 · 36 answers · asked by kiwi 2 in Singles & Dating

"I will always love you" by Whitney Houston

simple reason this is my choice because to me two elements that people need in life to help them to survive are love and relationships (working and romantic and friendship)

so no matter what life throws at you as a person be it moving country, be it a sudden and tradgic death, be it loosing touch by whatever reason, be it a job promotion so you see less of your partner due to longer working hours

you know that they will always love you and you will always love them if you dont stand in their way and therefore by respecting other peoples decision and being therefore them they will love you

hopefully you understand my question and if so whats your choice of song and why?

2007-02-01 21:56:20 · 19 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

isn't mum your best friend she's always there and she'll always care .

2007-02-01 21:56:16 · 43 answers · asked by tomski 3 in Family

Most of you think its a good idea to double date. Any one got an idea of how to find a couple of dates. I haven't been "out there" for a while and I'm a bit rusty. looking for males between 32 and 40. in kent.

2007-02-01 21:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by kiscool34 1 in Singles & Dating

when u r happy with ur gf/wife, would u still go out n find another gal? why?

2007-02-01 21:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Marriage & Divorce

saying something and wishing you hadn't...or saying nothing and wishing you had....everyone of us im sure must have gone through either of the things...so what do you think????

2007-02-01 21:53:14 · 17 answers · asked by pan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 21:53:14 · 17 answers · asked by deepan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and it's been hell lately. We both know that we love each other and we care of each other, but we argue alot. She's been mean, doesn't listen to what i have to say. Everything is about her. She feels that she has to act differently when she's around me. We have a communication problem, especially from her part, but she always blames me for everything...i'm tired of this, i gave it ALL, and she doesn't appreciate that...i feel i need to get out, but i love her alot....i don't know what to do???

2007-02-01 21:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I know she likes me and she knows I like her, but everytime I say I love you to her, she doesn't say I love you to me to. She's only done it once. How do I get her to say I love you back?

BTW, she's not my girlfriend.

2007-02-01 21:51:54 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and it's been hell lately. We both know that we love each other and we care of each other, but we argue alot. She's been mean, doesn't listen to what i have to say. Everything is about her. She feels that she has to act differently when she's around me. We have a communication problem, especially from her part, but she always blames me for everything...i'm tired of this, i gave it ALL, and she doesn't appreciate that...i feel i need to get out, but i love her alot....i don't know what to do???

2007-02-01 21:51:38 · 10 answers · asked by M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after I told my wife that I showed some of my friends some of our privite pictures. She was upset at frist. Then a couple days later she asked me who did I show them to and asked what did they really say about them.

2007-02-01 21:51:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she has a child and that child is like my uncle it self but she says its mine is it possiable i never was with her with out a condom ,even i used to cleane hers with my tounge pls help me,

2007-02-01 21:50:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-01 21:49:53 · 23 answers · asked by beer buddy 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello Ladies,
My name is Alex, and I'm looking for that special someone. To make a long story short, and you won't get bored reading it halfway done. Ok, here's the deal

Ok I'm 19 years old, I'm hispanic and absolutely love American girls. Before you get on the wrong side, yea I'm hispanic but respect Americans and this country, I have morals, ethics, principles, well behaved, Hell I'm a rocker guy. But for some reason, I don't get alot of girls attention and that drives me crazy. I dress casual yet nice, and make my appreance look good. I have a good personality. What am I doing wrong, is it that girls don't like guys that are gentleman anymore, they think I'm not up to their league? That really brings me down, because being a Taurus I have strong feelings. So what do I need to do to make girls notice me and NOT let life pass me by? I don't steal, do drugs or lie, what am I doing wrong? Ladies any advice, if you can please explain in details. Gracias- Thank You.

-Love
Alex

2007-02-01 21:49:05 · 4 answers · asked by money mike 3 in Singles & Dating

i find my friend often stops talking to me when she finds out something good is happening to me, she would ignore me for days, is this just my imaginatoin or its possible? e.g after finding out i am going to get some money from my parents she would stopped replying my email for days, and later saying she is very 'busy', she is in bad financial situation.

2007-02-01 21:47:56 · 11 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Friends

About are career, about financial, n about are married life. n how to understad each other more better.

2007-02-01 21:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by mabel p 1 in Family

well ever since my dad met his gf he has turned abit ferral,
smokes yea that, doesnt have time for me when i go to his house and never calls me anymore.

well just rang him to confirm to him that i wasnt going to go and se him at all this r and he started crying on the phone to me so i just said i gtg bye and hung up. then i started bursting into tears im really hurt by this but im sure hs hurting to.
i will always love him deep down but its just hard for me to talk to him anymore. What should i do im worried.??

2007-02-01 21:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why can’t I find a girlfriend who likes action movies, who is a computer technician or offering computer technical advice, likes to joke around with me, plays game systems or look up cheat codes? Why can’t a girl be like this or make an effort?

2007-02-01 21:42:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it has something to do with power or fear of not having control of other people.
Do you think it is because you do not have enough confidence and you want to rather pin point other peoples weakness.

2007-02-01 21:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by janice m 3 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend left i recently found out else gone back to his ex but i still love him should i keep intouch

2007-02-01 21:41:10 · 25 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Singles & Dating

why did they did it can anyone be so ruthless i just cant get it in my throat

2007-02-01 21:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by xxsanxx 5 in Marriage & Divorce

last weekend i hooked up with a girl i like she works down the road from me so i've seen her about but never talked!!!! well we got talking in the pub she said she has liked me for a long time and she want's me so we got together went to a club had a really good night but at the end of the night i did'nt ask her for her number(silly i now)!!!!! also she has a boyfriend of 6 months what shall i do!!!!!!

2007-02-01 21:39:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating