I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and it's been hell lately. We both know that we love each other and we care of each other, but we argue alot. She's been mean, doesn't listen to what i have to say. Everything is about her. She feels that she has to act differently when she's around me. We have a communication problem, especially from her part, but she always blames me for everything...i'm tired of this, i gave it ALL, and she doesn't appreciate that...i feel i need to get out, but i love her alot....i don't know what to do???
2007-02-01 21:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow a pair
2007-02-01 22:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about how you're feeling. Ask her if she really loves you and wants to continue being with you. Tell her how you feel when she doesn't listen to you or blames things on you. Listen to what she has to say and try not to yell or get angry, just speak calmly. Maybe she's not aware of how she's acting or how the way she's acting is affecting you. If you're meant to be together you will be. Good luck!
2007-02-01 22:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by mishy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You don't love someone if problems are best solved by throwing them away; it's the test of love to really understand and listen."
i completely agree with tanner rabbit....
talk things out calmly,maybe she is not aware of the way she is behaving..tell her things slowly,and at the same time tell hr how much you love her.....understanding is very imp for a realtionship to grow.....if she is falling short on her side on the comunication level you help her(and that you can very well do by being calm and telling her calmly what bothers you...and yeah a trick always helps...show her that you care for her and you love her)
remember one thing there was a reason why you fell in love with her...i too was very arrogant at first and i was very much a self centered person but i should say this that my boyfriend helped me...and stood as a strong support...and finally i realised where i was wrong...and here i am improving myself!
good luck!
and may God bless you!
2007-02-01 22:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by pan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to cool things down for a while. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
She may appreciate you more if she does not see you as much. You will find that you will have more to talk about.
I know it may be difficult but try it and see how it works out.
It will also give you time to think about what you really want to do with this relationship..
Good Luck
2007-02-01 22:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to sit her down and try to have a talk with her if she doesnt want to listen then atleast you tryed...leave give her some space dont call her and if she really loves you back then she will contact you
2007-02-01 21:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew the answer before I read the details of your question.
If you have to ask, then you really already know the answer.
2007-02-01 21:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that u want to live her but u feeling pity 4 her & not love.dont be with someone bcuz u pity them
2007-02-01 22:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. try to communicate well
2007-02-01 22:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF COMPATIBILITIES
FIRST IS
COMPATIBILITY OF MIND MENTAL THAT IS
SECOND IS SEXUAL
AND THE JUDGE IS ONLY YOU DO NT REPENT LATER. DECIDE NOE AT TIMES PEOPLE BORN CERTAIN YEARS APART NEVER MATCH BUT THEY LIVE AND LEARN TO COMPROMISE. PL READ COLLS
TIME IS GOD [ YOUR LIFE'S ANALYSIS ] IT WILL HELP YOU.
2007-02-01 22:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Tanner rabbit.
2007-02-01 22:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Combo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋