i find my friend often stops talking to me when she finds out something good is happening to me, she would ignore me for days, is this just my imaginatoin or its possible? e.g after finding out i am going to get some money from my parents she would stopped replying my email for days, and later saying she is very 'busy', she is in bad financial situation.
2007-02-01 21:47:56 · 11 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to let go of jealous people. They are bad medicine. I have a friend who is like that. As a result, whenever there is anything good happening in my life I don't tell her. I just try to remain civil with her and believe me she has noticed that I am a bit withdrawn. So what she is doing right now is trying to use me as a bridemaid in her wedding to "hold on to me". What is the point of having a friend if you can't share the highs and lows in your life? Let her go man.
2007-02-01 23:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well yes she is definitely jealous and so giving you the cold shoulder...
i think she is not the best of friends, but that's no reason to dump her or stop talking to her, sometimes it's not easy for people to see their friends getting everything they dream of, she's maybe happy for you but at the same time she wishes she gets the same things you're getting as well, it does not mean she wishes you harm or anything.
when she's giving you the cold shoulder she is giving herself the time to get over her lack of whatever she wants..
give her a break and be the bigger person here...
best wishes.
2007-02-01 22:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 10:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!
this sounds just like me last year!
i came first in 4 subjects at school last year, one of my friends started ignoring me and giving me the cold shoulder too.
it was really weird, because all my other friends were normal and congratulating.
so i asked her .. you should ask too.
2007-02-01 22:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by christine c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually this is a really interesting Q
people call others their friend when they don't really know them
i mean a friend is a person attached to another by affection or esteem.
see what i mean!
and remember a friend indeed is a friend in need!
2007-02-01 22:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by buzylizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a jealous frd and it is not healhty to continue ur frdship wit her. even if u must then stop telling her things abt u.
2007-02-01 21:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she must be a user
2007-02-01 21:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by ARSENAL FC 4 LIFE!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump her.... shes no friend only an emotional bully
2007-02-01 21:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes not a real friend....
shes a gold digger.....
2007-02-01 21:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Yisi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she is not your friend
2007-02-01 21:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by booge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋