Married my husband (who came from Turkey to the UK)19 years ago, didn't know that he was 13 years younger ( told me 8 years) and didn't know that his father a womaniser had left the home and tha my husband would be completely responsible for his mother and sister. I can cope with him financially supporting them, but its difficult to understand the emotional attachment he has to them. Last year I found out he was cheating and he eventually moved out to his own place. He said he had enough of commitment and responsibilities (I can understand). I have been patient and loving to him and pointed out that he doesn't have to feel responsible for me or our daughter because we are capable. He comes to our house 3/4 per week and we carry on as a couple but things are different now. He has gone to Turkey for 3 weeks because he wants to buy his mother a bigger place but only phones home every 3 days. Feel it is not enough am reluctant to phone him don't want to seem to be checking up on him
2007-02-01
22:02:54
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jospinelli
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