I have been married for 13 years, I alway's promised myself that I will give my children a normal and stable life and they will not know divorce. I have a 12year old & an 8yr old. I have worked very hard on my marriage through the years, initially I have worked through debt my husband made, then drinking, then physical fighting, then his affairs. The last few years all that has calmed down, there is still some drinking on ocasion, but not so bad. The thing is he has become controlling, extremely so, I can not eat, sleep or breathe as I want. He is permanently insulting me and speaks to me as if I am trash- funny enough, then the next minute he say's he loves me, wants sex & I have become this robot that goes with the flow. He has temper outbursts all the time, I feel I am going crazy. I want out, seriously- but am I a bad mother?
2007-02-01
19:33:42
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Marriage & Divorce