My boyfriend and I live in different country. He live in my old aparment and he try to find out the other aparment to move out whil I am in other country. What should I do to keep him, I love him so much. I can not lose him.
2007-02-01 19:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't...if he wants to leave and move on, there is nothing you can do. If you want to keep the apartment, you will need to make arrangements with whomever the apartment was leased from.
2007-02-01 19:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can lose him. He's in another country. Most long distance relationships fail anyway. May I suggest that you either return to where he is or he comes to you or you end the connection and move on.
2007-02-01 19:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanna leave u means he has lost his feelings for u, let him go and move on..no point having a 1 sided relationship. Meaning u love him bt he doesn't...that wld create more problems for u.
2007-02-01 19:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be. If he was meant to be he will stay if not you can force him to. Or if you guilt trip him or bribe him will lotsa sex and keep him, will you still be happy?? Coz you only kept him not his heart. Is that enough?? You deserve better, someone who loves you wholeheartedly. Let him go. and live you life.
2007-02-01 19:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not enable bypass of something you have not have been given. He would not desire to assist you bypass? guy, he needs to have all the exciting would not he?! how are you able to be so caught on somebody without appreciate for you, his kin or maybe himself? you recognize what you're doing is faulty yet stil you may not supply up doing it. ask your self why. Does this make you extra delicate 'reason you do not could make investments plenty in this courting? such as you may in case you have been with somebody who became into commited to you and basically you? Do you have a terror of dedication so it is the main you may settle for? i don't understand if any of those techniques is stable, you're able to locate out for your self. You knew from the beginning up he became into married, so what led you to settle for this place? have you ever stopped to think of roughly his spouse (or little ones, if he has any)? How might you experience in case you enjoyed somebody and found out that he became into messing around with yet another woman? i've got been cheated on, and it fairly hurts. it fairly is the main important loss of appreciate interior the international, giving your all to somebody who purely deceives you like that. And being on your place, you coach no appreciate for his spouse or for your self. That being mentioned, you and basically you have the flexibility to alter this. initiate loving your self a splash extra. You deserve extra desirable than being "the different woman". by no skill settle for under you deserve. Why are you stil with him? He likely wont bypass away his spouse. and in spite of if he did, why might you desire somebody like that? he's a guy or woman without values, he might finally end up hurting you basically like he harm her. in case you relatively need to bypass away, you will bypass away. do exactly it. think of roughly your cost as a guy or woman, think of that this occasion is bringing not something stable. To all people in contact. And think of which you deserve somebody who loves you and appreciate you. no you may still settle for 2nd ideal. Sorry if my words sound harsh, yet this fairly is faulty, stable success.
2016-12-13 06:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no use dear to hang on to him if he does'nt love you anymore. Maybe he was not meant for you. move on with your life and wait for the one meant for you and who will be able to love you back cause love is a two way street.
2007-02-01 19:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by geraldine k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell him you need him and ask him if he can just throw this relationship away after everything you two have been through. when are you gonna see him again? he really misses you
2007-02-01 19:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. You can't force it.
2007-02-01 19:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have lots of dirty sex... :D
2007-02-01 19:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋