My girlfriend is about the same age as me—I am 26 and she is 27. She says for me neither to make an account with myspace.com nor to visit the site because she thinks I will find someone else. I was like okay that’s fine with me. Except for that when I am with my ex-girlfriend who is my friend she questions me all the time. She gets mad and asks me how much time I spent with her and how many minutes did I spent talking to her. She also has the idea that me and my ex-girlfriend are flirting even though I assure her that I am not. Is my girlfriend for real?
2007-02-01 19:14:28 · 14 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course she is suspicious of your ex, after all, you were intimate at one time and she obviously has self esteem issues.
2007-02-01 19:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are over-reacting. You expect a relationship to be based in honesty and trust, and this is infringing upon that. It could very well be that it is nothing. And I would say if he's not with her anymore that it probably is nothing. So you could console yourself with that. But I'm sure you are thinking what else could he be lying to you about? The question I would want answered is what is he going to do now? If he says he's really not going to talk to her anymore, are you strong enough to believe him and not harp on him daily or sneak around to find out. Or will this always be an issue? You are not over-reacting! I just read some of the other responses and had to add a little more to mine. No... I do not believe that everyone lies in relationships a little. It's better to be honest and accept the consequences of your actions. If you are upfront and honest from the beginning, then these things (however little they may seem) will not have to stand in the way of a good relationship.
2016-05-24 04:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is!!! Case of the green eyed monstor!!
She needs to get over her insecurities - you would have thought that by age 27 she would be over all the "how long have you spent with her - dont set up a myspace" etc... sheesh!!!
I guess if you really like her then stick with and and "try" to prove that she is the only one you want - but if it gets too much then get out!!! lol
2007-02-01 19:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your girlfriend is for real, but you are not. If you are in a relationship, you have to put that relationship first and need to end the relationship with your ex-girlfriend.
Would you really like it if your girlfriend started doing with her ex-boyfriend the things you are doing with your ex-girlfriend...I will be not.
If you are not ready to terminate your relationship with your ex to be with your current girlfriend, you are not ready to be in a committed relationship with either and just need to tell them both that and that you want to play the field, but understand, they are both free to play the field too.
2007-02-01 19:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u one thing
a relationship with no trust will never work..she needs to get over the fact that u still talk to ur ex...
i mean if its not ur ex it will be someother girl and u dont need that drama in a relationship also shes never gonna get over that so ask her whats more important:
1.u and her and a happy couple/
2.u and her fighting over ur ex and being miserable
2007-02-01 19:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo all girls feel sum type way about your ex grilfriend. it sounds to me that she has a reason though cause you spend so much time with her. but all that about no myspace.com she is a lil to insecure.
2007-02-01 19:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by playatm25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can definitely understand why it’s hard for her to move past this. If you want this to resolve, the best you can do is see things her way. As long as you aren’t doing anything you shouldn’t be doing then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-02-01 19:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's pathetic. Tell her that past is past and tell her that what is important right now is the present.
Insecurities makes life for you a living hell. It is bad and could ruin trust. Make her realize that.
If she really loves you, then she'll change.
2007-02-01 19:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by aNne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous, girls get jealous easily, try understanding her and cut down ur time with ur ex...she loves u that's y she is jealous, afraid of losing u perhaps?...be more understanding as a guy.
2007-02-01 19:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one she's insecure and 2. she aint got noself confidence, bcuz clearly she is indirectly saying ur ex-girlfriend is better than her...she needs to have more confidence in herselfandcalm down....
2007-02-01 19:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kaneo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋