This girl I met online, she sent me a message cause I know a guy she knows. Anyway, she's cute, she seems to be pretty cool. But she's 19(almost 20), I'm 26. She's got a wild streak, guess I've got an anti-wild streak I guess. She went to school with my little brother, but I never knew of her untill now. Anyway I've talked to her on the phone a few times, still havent met her in person.
I dont look, think, or act like a typical 26 year old guy. I dont have much experiance with girls, so I'm thinking the age difference might actually be a good thing. Or it might be my way of justifying it in my mind.
Was talking to a female friend about it, she seems to think the age thing is a big deal. And her being kinda wild would be as well. Is she right? In the back of my mind I'm thinking I got nothing else going, been single too long, so maybe I should atleast give her a chance. Also thinking I'm setting myself up for disaster.
2007-02-01 19:18:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude u are thinking too much just go for it and it probably will prove to be very educational for u atleast and it probably won't hurt u too so whatever that don't kill ya only makes u stronger so goooooooooo for it!!!! and besides its a win-win situation lol
with regards to age difference i think if she accepts it then its all gooooooooood!!!!!!!
2007-02-01 19:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your married so there is no reason to tell her that you would listen to her problems you need to focus on your wife and be concerned with your family and not this girl or her man! Secondly you obviously know that she has a crush on you, if you pursue this invitation of listening to her and her problems that's just going to make her feel like she's closer to you, which could lead her on! And lastly does your wife know this girl, if she is not a friend of your wife's, and I dont care if your a coworker or not, you do not need to concern yourself with this other girl or her problems. This will cause big problems with you and your wife if your not careful! Women tend to become very territorial when their man is looked at or being pursued! This would only make your life situation way worse, and you need to stand up to yourself and tell yourself that you dont need to be nice to everyone and dont be the type of guy that listens to everyone's problems. And the reason girls pursue married men is because there is a sense of maturity found within a married man, and women like stability and are attracted to a man that is family oriented, marriage only makes that more attractive!
2016-05-24 04:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think too much - do you like this girl? do you want to go out with her? as long as she is old enough to date (you don't want to go out with a 14 year old, that's against the law) it doesn't matter the age. It matters whether there is a good fit or not. What do you mean by wild? sexually? personality? well, opposites attract, and you don't have to be alike in every way. But a lot is up to you, and if you like her, then go for it. It sounds like you are trying to talk yourself out of it. You either like her or you don't, and you can just go have fun. You don't have to have all life's questions answered right away - if you like her, go out, have fun, treat her well. See how it goes, if it went well, go out again, have fun. see if you like spending time with each other. treat her well. and so on. You have to be the one to persue her, it isn't the other way around. if you don't like her, then go on to someone else.
2007-02-01 19:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number, and i know girls half my age and they are really understanding...still wanna be with me. So, it ain't abt the age, think it's ur personality...give it a try dude, no harm done on doing that...just be prepared if she said NO...cheers! And yea, ur girl friend might not be wrong...some girls thinks that way too.
2007-02-01 19:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just sit there and do nothing.
C'mon dude, 26 and 20? That is not much of a difference.
Just keep talking yourself out of it and do your best to try not to experience anything in life...
WAKE UP! LIVE YOUR LIFE!
2007-02-01 19:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract ((:
sumtyms, wad u need is really a person dets de opposite of you. in dis case, maybe u found her.
try getting to know her better. hang out a few times, and judge her vibes.
if u seem to like her even more, and she's acting de same way, why not persue her?
gd luck!((:
*age is just a number unless u let it bother you(:
2007-02-01 19:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only a big deal when you are young.
you two are adults so age won't matter. i think you should give her a chance since she isn't completely random.
and what do you mean you dont act 26? how old do you act?
2007-02-01 19:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of worse age gaps... And only you can determine if it is right or not. But if you really want my opinion. Go for it. You are single, she is single, your both of legal consent. who knows what will happen.
CyberNara
2007-02-01 19:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age thing isn't that big of a deal unless you feel it is.
2007-02-01 19:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by ...---... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it to you there pedobob, but you can't just go after a girl because she talked to you once on the internet, get a real girlfriend, or a hooker, and quit whining
2007-02-01 19:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Earl H-C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋