Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

and found out they needed money. Would you send it to them?? (if you have never met them in person, but feel you can deeply trust the individual?)

2007-02-01 18:10:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think?

2007-02-01 18:08:54 · 11 answers · asked by fat_penguin17 1 in Singles & Dating

I just said I thought maybe he left town because I hadn't seen him for awhile and that's what he said, in a very nice kind of way although I think maybe he flirts with everyone.

2007-02-01 18:08:16 · 4 answers · asked by mj_indigo 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 18:06:41 · 11 answers · asked by Roz H 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my gf's friends dont seem right to me.......im wonderin if shes fake. and wen i say fake i mean like does she talk bout me negatively behind my back. I dont kno i jus gotta feeling that shes a fake person. maybe its a bad first impression but i dont know..........................................................................

2007-02-01 18:06:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are short conversation topics or short conversation starters that do not raise expectations for a relationship which is what I fear? I don't want to mislead them so that I don't give them false hope and have later to put up with unwanted interest or cause pain. Anyway, even if I raised 'wanted interest' I wouldn't want to do it, for I don't know how to continue from there. I need only the practice so that when the right woman comes I can talk to her. I fear I have already estranged two 'right' women simply because I couldn't talk to them more than smiling and saying hello (over a period of more than 3 years of opportunities for the first and about 2 years till now for the second). I think I still have an opportunity to develop a relationship with the woman with whom I currently communicate by glances and the occasional hello when we meet by accident or can 'engineer' an accidental meeting. Believe me I am not mad or something. I just am painfully shy and very attractive which com

2007-02-01 18:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by VA 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for only about 4 months, but I feel like I'm suffocating in the relationship. I love him as a friend and a companion, but when it comes to sex, my mind is a million miles away (if there's a solution to this problem, I would love to know it). I really can't tell him because he's sensitive and I would never want to hurt his feelings. The other day, I brought up the option of an open relationship because I really don't want to break up with him for many reasons. He agreed to it because for some reason he'll do anything just to be with me. Is this even a good idea, or would I be best advised to just call the whole thing off and hope we can still be friends?

2007-02-01 18:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by jesuswasshady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 3 and a half years since I was about 19. He graduated a semester before I did so he has been at a job in another city and we have been long distance and doing pretty well at it. However, the past few months (and even a little bit before we were long distance), I stopped feeling as attracted to him and felt more like we were just best friends. I also need to figure out my career/ grad school path so we took a break about a month ago and he surprised me earlier this week by coming to my city and telling me how much he missed me. At first I was elated to be back together buy now that feeling is back that makes me feel like not kissing him and that we could use more time apart. Is it normal after 3 yrs to not feel like kissing your significant other? and also, since we have such a great connecction, even if it is as best friends, should i hang on to it? or take a longer break while i get settled in a career? ANY HELP IS GREATLY APPRECIATED!!

2007-02-01 18:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by AggieAM 3 in Singles & Dating

What's the difference? I've always thought of a threesome as everyone touches everyone and pulling a train as two guys and a girl or vice versa but the guys/girls *which ever there are 2 of* never touch each other. What do you think?

This is an ongoing disagreement between a friend and I!

2007-02-01 18:03:38 · 11 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known I liked him for a while now but today he made a move. I went out of the room for a few mins to use the restroom and i came back and he said "My love, where did you go? I missed you!" and then he gave me a big hug. (we have never hugged before) I really like him and i want to be with him but i dont want to ruin our relationship...what should i do?

2007-02-01 18:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what would are song be??

2007-02-01 17:59:52 · 4 answers · asked by greg b 2 in Weddings

I'm 5'7" myself. It seems that more and more women are looking to tall men as an attractive feature nowdays. I really hope this isn't the case cause i'm not that tall.

2007-02-01 17:58:46 · 21 answers · asked by JDOG 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone has real advice to help-please answer. I am very ambarassed.

2007-02-01 17:58:34 · 7 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know guys have this thing about girls, but I don't see how you can claim to love a woman when you never even think about how she'd feel? Would you be okay with it if your wife/girlfriend slept with someone else?!

2007-02-01 17:58:10 · 5 answers · asked by chaucer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a follow-up to a previous post, and I need more help!

I went out with this guy in December, one date that he was incredibly late to. He didn't call me till after we were supposed to meet, and tried to postpone, but I convinced him to go out since I was all dressed to go out. Since then, we talked a few times on the phone about going out again, but then he would say he would call me again on Monday and not call till 4am on Friday.

I cannot trust this guy, not because he's a bad person but because he's just not looking for any sort of commitment - even a commitment to showing up on time or calling when he says he will.

Last week he called and I told him I didn't want to see him again, and he asked me to reconsider. He said he wanted a second chace to get his life "back in order". I told him to call the next day since it wasn't a good moment but he didn't till late.

He called again tonight and left plaintive vociemails for me to call. What should I do??

2007-02-01 17:57:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin is 14 and everytime she walks down the street men are hollering at her from their cars and on the sidewalk. Why do they find younger girls attractive. And this question is mainly targetted towards men, do you stare at 14 year olds?

2007-02-01 17:56:29 · 27 answers · asked by Sandra<3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're not dating, but I'd love to! I have given him a kiss on the cheek and around Christmas...one on the neck too! He did ask if I liked to have kisses blown my direction! I said YES!

2007-02-01 17:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she always seems so bitter at me and i dont know what i have done and the tension keeps building. I am at a breaking point i try talking but she refuses to listen

2007-02-01 17:53:05 · 10 answers · asked by fancy 3 in Singles & Dating

He is already long distance, plus now, he will be moving to another country altogether. Plus, he is the silent kinds. He is someone who keeps things inside him. How can I ever know what's bothering him. What can I do to really be there for him. Guys, any sugestions? What exactly does a guy appreciate? Details would help.

2007-02-01 17:52:34 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 17:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 & i have never recieved a valentines day present in my life, sometimes i just hate it when valentines day comes around because i never get anything........... is there something wrong with me, Im not a fast girl - I dont date lots of guys, I've been told loads of times I'm pretty, so whats the problem that no guy even wants to give me a rose on valentines day.

2007-02-01 17:50:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im dating a amazing lady for almost a year and a half we got the perfect communication,we like to try fantasys out we hang out together,we both try what the other person likes out. ive actually made a book on how to be a gentleman. ive used each and everyone of them. but a part of me is telling me that no u got to do more am i nuts for thinking this. what should i do

2007-02-01 17:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by random at its finest 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

things are way out of hand and then you have a break up? Why do people don't talk anymore and assume a lot??

2007-02-01 17:46:27 · 8 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 17:44:40 · 12 answers · asked by Ace of Blackness 2 in Friends

I am looking for a veil and I have been told that if you have rhinestones on it, they show up as little black dots in the pictures.
Is this true?

2007-02-01 17:44:31 · 6 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Weddings

My english teacher has been acting a little funny all year. I happen to be in his advisory group as well as his class, and for a while he was the moderator of the club of which I was in charge. Well, for some reason he always pays a lot of attention to me. I'm pretty good in his class, but not a brilliant student, yet for some reason he calls on me about as much as any other two people in the class combined. He has a habit of staring in a rather creepy way at people, and it's starting to freak me out. He's about 10-12 years older than me; I don't know whether he has some sort of weird crush on me or what, since he has a girlfriend, but it's getting in the way of me concentrating in class. I had a crush on HIM last year, when he wasn't my teacher, and the seemingly excessive attention is getting awkward to a point of extreme distraction. What should I do; grit my teeth and bear through it, or 'fess up? Or am I just imagining things?

2007-02-01 17:44:23 · 8 answers · asked by GeekGirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was dating a guy for many years then we parted as relations were over. A couple of montha after it I was getting over the relations still when i met a person who seemed to come out of my dreams. We planned joint future but something got wrong and he was the first to say "let's part, that would be better".
Yes, perhaps he is right. But I just forgot how is it to be all alone? What are the advantages of such a state?

2007-02-01 17:43:50 · 1 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is awosme. everything about him is just so great and hes a gentleman, hes everything i want. These girls who he used to date are saying things to me, trying to piss me off ((they happen to be exs of his)) even my best friend (whos also his best friend) is telling me things about him. I talked to his sister & she says that hes in love with me and all these things. He is just the sweetest guy.... am i foolish to believe him or should i be thinking about what others are telling me?

2007-02-01 17:42:57 · 1 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with with my ex. He found out I meet another guy. Then he was like I am so sorry and I Love you. Well I told him he was going to have to earn my trust. He kept asking me out and I said I think we should just date untill I know I can trust you. After this he told me he meet another girl and he really cares about me an loves me but didn't know what to do. So I said ok. Then a day later he said he wanted to be with me. So we planned a date and he went. Well two days afterward he told me that he asked her out 2 days ago and just didn't want to hurt my feelings. So I decided not to talk to him anymore so a month went by and he text me and acted like nothing happen and was like "how are you"? I called him because I was trying figure out what was going on. We used talk every night for hours so he was like "I am going to call you tommorow k". He called 2 days later and bragged about his girlfriend but was asking about my love life. What does he mean by all of this i am confused.

2007-02-01 17:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by blackglitter 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend stated that he was attracted to me and likes to cuddle with me but that was only stated once. We have know each other for a year and i think that i may have feeling toward him also. However, we talk more often on the phone now and nothing more has been said about his feelings for me. I would like to work towards something more. I find it wierd that he hasen't said anything about it then again we were drinking that night but how should i go about asking him what the deal ? He is a quiet type of guy kinda

2007-02-01 17:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mizz007 2 in Singles & Dating