If someone has real advice to help-please answer. I am very ambarassed.
2007-02-01 17:58:34 · 7 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You did'nt say what ended the relationship, mabey it just was'nt meant to be. Just concentrate on youself, (take classes, go out with friends) The right person will come along.
2007-02-01 18:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by seven-11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a really hard question. I had my heart broken by the guy i was supposed to marry in May just a few months ago. It is so very hard. Even if it ends bad, like cheating for example, it doesn't make it any easier to get over. Everyone told me it takes time. I guess it's a little true. I still cry sometimes, but i can read an old email or see an old picture of us without bawling my eyes out for days. So i guess thats progress.
If it just happened, i'd say to just let yourself cry. Cry all you want and just get it out. If you're mad at him, find a safe way to get out your aggression( i.e. the gym, a run.) Make sure you don't make any life altering decisions right now. I wanted to quit everything and move to Mexico. Probably not a good idea, i'm glad my friends and family talked me out of it. Let others support you. Whenever you get lonely or sad or need to talk, call someone who cares. Good luck. And as someone with experience, i can tell you it does get a little easier day by day.
2007-02-01 18:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen.
the reason you envisioned such a long time is because of the comfort ... the acceptance. you were happy. but now listen closer.
the relationship enabled you to be "you". and that is why this man was so important to you. i would gently submit that being you is not something you can manage easily with just any person.
advice.......understand the relationship you were having with him.
become knowledgeable of what were the traits of character or what were the physical characteristics and anything else that comes to your mind.
make 3 columns...mind ........./ soul ........./ body(material incl.)
place these values beneath each as you remember them. and this will give you a much better understanding of what is important to you. and therefore what enables you to be "you" most comfortably.
have fun with it and don't be embarrassed...living experience is the only way to discover what are these values.
be well
2007-02-01 18:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by noninvultuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take a long time, but realize that if it didn't work out, it just wasn't meant to be. If you were supposed to be together, then that would have been the outcome. Work on reinventing yourself as a single woman and eventually begin to date again. Don't wallow in what was, but appreciate the here and now and plan for an amazing future!
2007-02-01 18:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by obliviona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time..remind yourself of why the relationship ended.If you couldn't withstand dating...how was you're marriage going to last??
2007-02-01 18:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way is through finding another
2007-02-01 18:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
define "rupture"?..... pretty strong word.
2007-02-01 18:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋