I think that there's something wrong with me because I'm only attracted to white women for some reason. I've tried to be more interested in females of my own race but in the end, I'm just not attracted to them. Is it psychological? I'm a Chinese male. If you are like me, please state why.
FYI: I like strong and independent women.
2007-02-01 19:19:21 · 23 answers · asked by ...---... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you like strong and independent women is probably more important that the color of their skin. I'd suggest it's a by-product rather than a cause.
2007-02-01 19:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Matt Lambie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it is psychological. It would also depend on where you were born and raised too. It's natural for people to be attracted to those they were raised more with, so if majority of people are white where you grew up, it's common that you'd be more attracted to white females as the Western perception of "beauty" is different to the Chinese, and it may be that it is the Western one that has most influenced you - even if you were born in China.
Also, you like strong and independent women. Let's not say there isn't an image here. Women in the West are far more liberated than overseas. Thus, white women carry the connotation of independence and strength in Western culture that women of other nations including China simply may not have yet.
So it is psychological. But if you were to meet a Chinese woman who was feisty and otherwise "white" in this "perception"... would you care?
2007-02-01 19:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is number 1 because you have seen black men and white women for a long time and it is becoming more and more ok with people or normal. On the other hand i like white men and in school people don't like to see that for some reason. Over time I think it will be normal for a black women to date a white men
2016-05-24 04:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called preference. You will find that all men have a preference of one kind or another. I go crazy when i see a short woman with long hair. I believe for you, you like strength and aggressiveness from a woman. The kind of woman who will take charge of situations. I live in Taiwan and I have yet to see a woman like that. If you are looking for that kind of a woman, here are a few tips. Those kind of women want a man who they won't look done at, physically, not height. Get into really good shape! Secondly, they are the boss, but they don't want a weak man. Express your opinion, but allow them to make the final decision. Do it because you are confident, not because you are afraid. I know quite a few of these kind of women and there is one thing they love above all else... A man who shows confidence and is never pushy.
2007-02-01 19:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you Kraus. I think you should just accept your interest in white women. IF someday, there is someone of your ethnic background that does attract you--then deal with that when the time comes. In the meantime, I wouldn't beat up on myself for liking someone of a different racial background.
As for it being phychological..... It could be. I personally believe that it relates back to when we are very little and what we may've been exposed to during that time. For me, we had a neighbor that had a young son who played basketball. He was a real hottie.... But I was way, way, WAY too young to even be thinking about stuff like boys and stuff. But he was really pretty to my eyes and my brain didn't forget. As I got older, I found myself attracted to men who had his traits--the dark twinkly eyes, sexy smile, his shyness, and how tall he was. This would've been just fine under normal circumstances..... But! I was white and he was black.... And my folks were racists. They weren't too happy about my choices. And I did date within my own race.... But wasn't satisfied.
2007-02-01 19:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a preferance and you just decided on one kind but have you even tried to have a relationship with a chinese female and if you have remember all female arre not the same
2007-02-01 19:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to only be attracted to one color. I am a white women that is only attracted to Asian men. I have always been very attracted to Asian men, they just look so much better then white or black guys, at least to me. Plus I have always been treated better by Asian men ;).
2007-02-01 19:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by MaeSalgo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you like Albino women? I can't think of any other women who would have white skin since you were specific about a skin color and not an ethnic group or race.
2007-02-01 19:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am also a chinese man. you probabbly want to feel more americanized. less fobish. you don't wanna be labeled as fob. also you probabbly got some issues with your parents. you are a bit ashamed of your heritage. hey since the asian girls are going after white guys anyways. where does that leave you? and white girls are pretty. but you probabbly mostly have issues with your heritage.
2007-02-01 19:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
must be something psychological.most of our relationshp ideologies are created earlir on in life.this could be from the people around you or through the media.but there is no harm in dating a certain group of people.it just shows you are enlightened
2007-02-01 19:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋