My boyfriend is pushing me down on beds(playfully)but ill lean up then he'll push me down again then climb up on me,
Also when I was sitting on my bed watching a movie he came up and grabbed my legs and pulled me from the middle of the bed to him with my legs around him!!
&when he wants to kiss he will kind of push my face towards his or when we're kissing and I pull away he'll push the back of my head with his hand so I can't pull away,
And the biggest thing for me was:we where kissing on his bed and he started getting all handsy and he put his hand on my (magicconchshell)& started rubbing\&i moved his hand &he said sorry then we kept kissing then he started again&I moved his hand&he said sorry babe then we started kissing&he did it again but when i tried to move his hand he wouldnt let me move it at all &he did it more then he stopped after like 2mins (felt like forever)so whats this all sound like to you??
Please give me your advice/opinion on this all..
Thanks Ashley-
2007-02-01 19:20:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
&whenever he sees like short skirts he'll say you aint wearin none of that whore stuff with me.
Im 16 hes 17.
2007-02-01 19:20:45 · update #1
Woah..Seems like he's more interested in making out and all that kinda stuff rather than u itself.... hmm...have him sit down and talk to him abt this. tll him u smtimes feel uncomfortable when he does stuff like that to u... hopefully he does change... if not..forget abt him and get smone else.. Might not be that easy but..u'll do fine.. Good luck..;)..
2007-02-01 19:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Redweedplace ® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i see u in a big trouble bt dnt worry these things happen to all girlfriends, I was nt an exception.
First of all u hvnt mention how long u guys r going out? How is th guy(wht kind of?)
Basically guys r like these. But it depends how long u guys r going out. But ur guy sounds quite more than that. He is interested in making out wth u rather than any thing else.
Best thing u talk 2 him frankly wth shying. Tell him u r nt liking these things and dnt want anythg 2 happen this early.
Honey dnt let him touch ur body coz it's urs. If he realy loves u he will get ur problem n he'll listen 2 u. If he doesnt than gal u better walk out coz all he needs is ur body nt u.Remember True love lies between 2 persons mentality nt in between bodies
All the best.
2007-02-01 19:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Naz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like hes just a normal 17 year old boy who wants to get his leg over but i cant really assume that because i dont know him aswel as you do. have you already slept with him, if you have then maybe hes just a horny teenager if not then maybe he wants to, but dont be pressured into sleeping with somebody because you think its what they want, the right person will come along and it will be worth the wait. i no everyone says that but it seriously will be worth the wait. if he keeps doing it even when you tell hyim not to then stops and goesback to it tell him that you said stop before so why is he doing it again, sometimes you have to stand up to people even if you do love them to stop them from taking advantage.
fair enough if hes jut playing then thats all fine but if your comfortable with soem of the stuff that hes doing then he needs to be told.
i doubt her would like it if you forced him to kiss you or if you started yanking at him really hard especially if youre not in the moodfor a bit of rumpo!
if you respect him then he should respect you back. it works both ways. he may think that its deeply sexual and that u might ike being dragged across the bed and grabbed to be kissed, i think its the whole dominant caveman thingy that all blokes seem to have, but if you dont like it then push him off and sit up tell him teh problem and if he doesnt like it then he knows what he can do.
tell him how it makes you feel to be pulled around if he dont liek it then he can lump it!
take it slow girl and good luck, there is someone for everyone out there maybe someone better for you sometime sit may not feel like it but believe me there is.
good luck
2007-02-01 19:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt leaping into the air some situations an afternoon while no one is around. try this daily. After 3 to 4 weeks, in case you have been consistent, you're transforming into a dream the place you bounce into the air. yet in aims, we don't purely drop decrease back to the floor, we decide for the flow backtrack. then you definately'll understand you're in a dream.
2016-12-13 06:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds dominating. Be careful. Don't let him push you around. If something bothers you, or something hurts you, speak up. Don't be afraid. Be honest with him. Stand up for your rights as a person. I am kinda concerned for you with him. Hope he is a good person and will treat u well. Take care.
2007-02-01 19:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. That's bad news. You shouldn't have to be put in situations that make you feel uncomfortable like that. You deserve better. It starts out like that, but it CAN lead to rape or abuse. You should have only had to tell him to stop once. If he respected you, he would have stopped the first time.
2007-02-01 20:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by stefanie_wasser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wld say very childish behaviour..did u tell him that u hate it when he does that? He shld respect u cos ur a girl still...wld tell u to let him know u dislike him doing that n respect u if he loves u.
2007-02-01 19:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...hes a little possessive...talk to him...if it doesnt work ...find a guy who really acts like a gentleman...k'one...there are a lot of that kind of guys out there...but before make any decision talk to him...it will clear some things
2007-02-01 19:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by rox_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are leading him on? he seems really agressive. tell him to be less aggressive.
he kept going there even when you told him to stop? next time just stop making out with him and leave the room. that will teach him.
2007-02-01 19:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to break up with him becuase he isn't respecting you. It also sounds like he wants to have sex.
2007-02-01 20:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋