i mean in realtionship...
2007-01-30 19:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not sure how to explan it... its like i cant open up to them...like im scared to do it...like sexualy im fine...i mean i have no prob there its juss emontionaly...its hard...an wen i do i find myself pullin back again..and doing this that end up ending my reationships....
2007-01-30 19:57:59 · update #1
Are you rushing things when you are in a relationship? If you are you shouldnt. Infact the early stage of any relationship is still getting to know one another, so take that phase important and move it slowly. Try to develop a good understanding with the partner then.
2007-01-30 19:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info to give you a better answer but. What types of people do you date? What interests you about them? You know character traits, personality, etc. etc. What were the reasons for some of the breakups?
When you say 'get close' exactly what are you implying? And how long do these relationships last? If you interpreted the very last two sentences properly then you should be following the point I'm trying to drive to you. Are you involving yourself in relationships where your maybe [sleeeping] with these partners .. errr let's say 1 wk or something or after a night at the club? Don't mean to offend you but, just need to know more.
2007-01-31 03:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by JE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you get too close too soon or you are so tongue tied that you say something you didn't mean. When you get close to someone you have to tread lightly. Both of you at that time are very vulnerable.
2007-01-31 03:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you get something out of messing it up? Are you afraid of being (and staying) close? Are you so afraid that you're subconsciously destroying the relationship?
2007-01-31 03:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you have some issues with yourself and what you want. Take it slow and figure out what you really need and then everything will work out.
2007-01-31 03:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not truly happy with yourself so you will not find someone that makes you happy till you are. Work on you than everything will be great.
2007-01-31 03:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two possible things (1) you're drinking too much coffee, too nervous or (2) you're just clumsy
2007-01-31 03:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what are u doin? Take your time and think about what you want. then go for it and maybe its the dumb men/women.
2007-01-31 03:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcos your a dill.
2007-01-31 03:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it flow... don't try to hard to impress that person, be yourself. breath... and count to 10, maybe your just nervous.
2007-01-31 03:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by miss gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋