My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married because he might be getting stationed in Germany. We are very in love and neather or us can deal with not being with eachother. So when we were in Indiana at Christmas with his family he said" we will go to the court house if I get the job because I wont go without you." But now it looks like he is going to be getting the job and it stresses me out and scares me cause he will be gone for 2 years. When he told me I stayed strong and I was kidding and I said you cant go without me and he said well you cant go. So I dont know if he is just saying that or if he is going to propose and hes just trying to throw me off. Please help. Let me know what you guys think! Thank you
2007-01-30 19:14:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
he is 26 and hes a LT
2007-01-30 19:39:49 · update #1
just take one day at the time don't expect to much,so you don't be disappointed,be cautiously optimistic.
2007-01-30 19:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it slow, go out and have a good time when he is gone, Don't wait for him. See what happens when he comes back in 2 years, let him realize how much he missed you. You need to go out and meet people get a good job learn do all the things that will help you build a good life with him or without him.
Don't sit around and wait for him, I hate to see you get hurt if he comes back with someone else.
2007-01-31 03:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋