If guys say they love their girl wouldn't they do antyhing to spend time with her and or even do the things that she would like to do. Or even go to the club with them..
2007-01-30 19:16:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the guy.
Some guys like to do the club thing with "the boys"
Some don't want their girlfriends in the club as they will get jealous when other guys hit on their girls, so it will ruin their night.
Some guys don't take their girl because they are cheating pr***s and they want to pick up.
Some see it as being a sleazy scene and think their girl is too good for the scene so they dont want her there.
You need to find out why he doesn't want you to go. If you think the answer is suss.... keep asking.
Be warned..... Pushing will most likely cause an arguement. Also, if you don't think you are going to like the answer you get, don't ask unless you a prepared to face whatever comes.
2007-01-30 20:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by originalpuppycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, I LOVE dancing (and yes, I'm straight), so this wouldn't be an issue. But one of my best friends HATES dancing, he doesn't understand it, he feels SO embarassed to make silly moves in front of everyone, so unless he's buzzed AND a totally hot girl is FORCING him to dance, he won't do it.
There are some things that guys hate to do, he might hate to dance, or go see chick flicks or go to an art gallery. You should be understanding of his interests, at the same time you two should agree to try to have fun with each other and make compromises when you need to. So while he might not think it's the best idea for an evening to go out dancing, he SHOULD be willing to at least do this FOR YOU at least once in a while. But make sure that you go to great lengths to try to do what he likes too.
2007-01-30 19:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, first of all, everyone needs time alone. You go out with your friends, he goes out with his. BUT, this sounds more like a case of...."You are with an asshole". He goes to the clubs without you, so he can whore around. If this is the case? And you are dumb enough to wait around for him??? Stop. Now. The guy is a using, no-class prick, taking advantage of your love and sweetness. Let me know which one is true. I'll bet it's the latter. Good luck girl! And, NEVER put up with being disrespected!!!!
2007-01-30 19:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, night clubs are a place to meet new girls, not take ones you've already established a relationship with. And personally, I don't care for the club scene much at all, and I would consider disrespectful for a girl not to understand that.
2007-01-30 19:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy doesn't like me going to clubs, and even if it with him, it's not that he's insecure or cheating it just that, he doesn't like the way the other guys act and in South Africa even if you with ur husband they try get you, so it doesnt mean he doesn't wanna spend tiem with you he just want you to be safe trust me i no i went with my guy to a club, i don't think i'd go again
2007-01-30 19:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just really want to show off their girlfriends at the dancefloor. Let them peeps know that shes sexy and fun! He wants them to know that shes exciting and all. But some guys arent into night clubs maybe hes just being protective of you.
2007-01-30 19:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by shanekeavy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do *NOT* like clubs. Some us HATE to dance, for instance.
That's not an excuse for making no effort. It's just that folks are wired differently and your guy probably doesn't like all of the things that you do. Do you like all of the things that he likes?
2007-01-30 19:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should be bringing your butt to the club too! There is a time when they need to get out w/the fellas solo...but everytime he goes out...it doesn't have to be w/o you! Me n my ex use to always go out together. If he isn't bringing you out too...then I think something ain't right! It's not cool in my book and I probably wouldn't be dating him if I was you n he isn't including you in the club fun!
Just cuz he doens't go out w/u doesn't mean anything...but if everytime he doesn't want you to go....hey if you are happy then that's all that matters ya know!?
Do you girl n get happy!
2007-01-30 19:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by tr95 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most dont like to take their girl to club coz they like to bump and grind with other girls, or they they dont want their girl beaten up by the sl*ts they were with the last time. i dont take my girl to club because she does not want to learn to dance and I hell ant gonna spend the whole night on the couches like what happened the last time
2007-01-30 19:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL-have u ever seen how people grind on the dance floor?? so u know other women will grind on ur man right?? &that is what men think women can't handle, or tolorate.(the whole jealous/possesion thing)
Sometimes i can handle such things other times not.
when i can, i dance with another guy, soon the guy im with, tactfully grabs me away-LOL, but we both have fun then.
2007-01-30 19:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋