This question is for guys and girls.
I'd like you to share with all of us (I'm a grandpa, so I already have a few ideas on the subject) whether you know if someone has a crush on you and what you do about it.
Sadly, when I was young I missed a few opportunities because I was too shy to act on my own crushes or to act on crushes some girls had on me.
How do you guys handle it? Share with me and with each other. Let's knock a few of the barriers down between you young folks and get some of you together who like each other and are too shy to say so.
2007-01-30 19:13:09 · 7 answers · asked by Warren D 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 possible answers...
#1: If you like the guy/girl that has a crush on you. Don't flirt with him/her to much. Instead, make him/her special. Like, be the first one to greet him/her a "hi" or "hello". When he or she is kinda like your suitor, just accept what he/she gives you. Develop your relationship with him/her
#2: If you don't like the guy/girl that has a crush on you. Don't be rude. Instead, let him/her hear what she have to hear in a nice way. Like, "Im sorry but....". When he or she kinda like your suitor, still accept what she/he gives you but tell him/her if she/he still have a chance. Don't let him/her wait for or follow you and then in the end he/she doesn't get anything.
Remember, wether you like or don't like the person who has a crush on you. You should always be gentle and humble... :)
2007-01-30 19:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by angelicuriosity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its nice of u to ask such a Q
usually ppl dont come to know that sum1 has a crush on them, unless n until sum1 tells them abt it n the person
recently i came to know that sum1 had a crush on me
though the guy was my junior in clg, he never had the courage to tell that
but now wen there is a rumor in my dept. that iam getting married (in actual there is nothing so) he told me abt how he felt for me n never told
well at 1st i was laughing n laughing n so did my frens
but later i told him its not bad to like/luv some1 but one should not accept that the other person will too like/luv u in the same manner
in todays time where there is lots of hatred n jealousy
its nice n gud u like sum1 n respect her/him
n u should still do so even if the person doesnt love u in that sense
every1 has there own likes/dislikes its a matter if personal choice
keeping in view that u should be a gud fren to them
well it did work wid me
n now he is just a fren of mine though he sometimes get embarras wen his frens tease him but as a gud fren i rescue him lol
2007-01-31 03:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by famakaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I feel the same way, I ask her out. But if I don't, I avoid doing things which can make an assumption that I like her also. If she ask me out, I say no politely....
2007-01-31 03:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by AY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask if she wants to go on a date with you
if your interested
2007-01-31 03:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by danielle112307 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for who i am...she must damn brave and full of confidence to have a crush on me. i may give her a chance on it.
2007-01-31 03:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by MasterEled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'D ASK THEM TO LET GO OF ME !!!!!
2007-01-31 03:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Spanky the monkey !!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll respond to it.. life is to short to be in fear...
2007-01-31 03:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋