If you always want commitment, why do some many of y'all go to the club and get yo freak on?? I mean wheres the commitment in that??
You know what I think it is, I think its because within every women there is actually two women.. One that society has made to be this person who lives by these rules and cant do these things and has to act a certain way. The do's and dont's that keep your inner self in check...
But the natural woman....that's the woman right there at the core... where you keep your most exciting memories... where you ponder fantasies... daydreams... amazing possibilities... the things you'd do if no one were watching and no one... even your best friends... would ever, ever know about. Thats what I think... What do you think?
2007-01-30 19:25:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree
2007-01-30 19:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting theory indeed.
"Guys always categorise girls into the type that you'd have a one-night stand with... the type you wouldn't touch even with the handle of a broom... the type to have some flirtatious fun with and maybe end up in a relationship with... and the type that you could take home to meet your mother".
Now the thing about all this is you guys need to realize something about us females --- you are not the only ones who categorise!!! We do the same. So yes, we do want stability and commitment... but from the right type of guy. Sure there are times when we go to clubs and enjoy a night out (just like guys do). We also occasionally like one-night stands (just like guys do). We also like the occasional flirtatious encounter (just like guys do). And then ofcourse we are always in search of that one guy that we could take home to meet our parents (just like guys do).
So after all of this, my question to you is.... Why even feel the need to ask your question at all? Why are women perceived to only always be looking for commitment? Why is it always assumed that only guys are allowed to have fun? Why is it frowned upon by guys like you if a women has some fun for a change? Think about that for a while and then ask yourself your own question again.
2007-01-30 19:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I've never been to a club to "get my freak on". The only club I've been to was with my fiance, and we went with a group of friends just to hang out. Why should women be limited to only being able to date one person and have to commit? Not all women want to commit to someone right away. It's just like with guys.
2007-01-30 19:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting theory. But not every woman who go to the clubs looks for commitment at that time. They might just wanna have some fun.
2007-01-30 19:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by ira a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've lived a party life & a commited life..They both have there good & bad points. I think you can be commited & still have an exciting life too. I don't care what people think & I keep things to myself.What they don't know, can't turn around & bite me in the a** later, if you know what I mean..Take care
2007-01-30 19:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 17:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Im a girl,
and I know what you mean we can be two faced.
but if shes going and getting her "freak on"
I think the best way to slove this problem is to keep her instread in you never let her have a dull moment remind her shes everything to you.
2007-01-30 19:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we still want commitment and have fun in the relationship as well. besides I think there are more married men at clubs no a days.
2007-01-30 19:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you meet wrong women,because not every woman wants commitment,and probably you attract those type women because in your mind,that what women are,it is no reality only perception.
2007-01-30 19:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss becuz we go to clubs and stuff doesnt mean were not committed..we juss wana have fun...
2007-01-30 19:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it all.
Just one thing- why only two?... a woman is more complex than that.
2007-01-30 19:30:46 · answer #11 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋