Is it wrong to date your ex-girlfriends ex-girlfriend? (Lesbian relationship)?

Question

Here's the scenerio....(get ready for lesbian drama)

History: Lesbian #1 dated lesbian #2 AND lesbian #3.

Friendship Status: Lesbian #1 and #2 are still really good friends (dispite the breakup). Lesbian #1 and #3 are also friends.

Now, Lesbian #2 and #3 are dating. They know each other through their mutual Ex---lesbian #1.

Lesbian #1 is not cool with this. Lesbian #2 only told lesbian #1 what is happening after a date with lesbian #3.

Is lesbian #1 over-reacting or is it clearly seen as hurtful for an ex to date your other ex?

Answer 1

i think its more hurtful to her as she's obviously dated both. technically alls fair in love and war so to speak, but morally if she's still friends and in regular contact with them both as they are with her, then they shouldn't really cross that line. i can see how complicated it is. i think it would be hurtful, but if 2&3 really like each other and intend on a relationship, its best for lesbian 1 to break contact im afraid. it may be too painful for her. if lesbian 2 & 3 want to continue seeing each other, it would be kinder to break contact with lesbian 1 also.

Answer 2

I'm a man, but if I were Lesbian #1, it would bother me as well. If they are both Lesbian #1 friends, they would consider her feelings in the situation. On the other hand, Lesbians #2 and 3 may have developed real feelings for each other accidentally, which clouded any rational judgement which seems obvious to someone on the outside. It sucks, but love can be cruel.

Answer 3

Lesbians

Answer 4

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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.

Answer 5

it is never good to date a friends ex.

in most cases, you should ask your friend before dating their ex to avoid hurt feelings and also a broken friendship.

basically, if all 3 of them like being friends with eachother, they should probably just keep it that way because the relationship will most likely divide the friendship.

Answer 6

Anytime you close the triangle, it's going to be hurtful to the one who was left out. The only good way to handle this would for one of them to consult #1 before the date. If #1 had a problem with it, they should have respected that... at least for awhile.

Answer 7

over reacting.
I mean, hey, it's over. They've broken up. WHAT right lesbian#1 has? Unless she still likes her ex gf.

Answer 8

Urrghh....That's two nasty girls you're hanging with there. Come to our knitting class on a wednesday eve and I'll hook you up with Ethal, she'll cook for you, clean for you and she might even knit you a cardie. And take it from me on good understanding, she goes like the clappers.

Answer 9

the whole history is not going throw to me but just the concept of dating your ex girl ex girl is wrong, that hurting them, but then love doesn't work like that love picks who it wants to pick. if you really love the person tell them that and tell your ex if she understands or not love is love. and Good luck

Answer 10

i think lesbian #1 is overracting,though it might hurt to see someone u have feelings for with another person.i think the three should get together and have a heart to heart talk and clear the air.it will help all three.