i was with the gal i've been seeing last nite.... (seeing her for 3 months) anyway, we were doing some midnight athletics, i took her in my arms gave her a big hug, an was staring in to her eyes, it kind of felt right to say i love you !!!!!!
I didn't though, shall i wait for her to say it me, as i dont wana scare her off this soon.....!!!
2007-01-30 19:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be a man! do the right thing! =P
hehehe, maybe you didnt say it because you didnt feel you were ready. you could always wait but usually, girl's dont make the first move. we're more afraid of you than you are of us =P.. hehe what i meant by that is that we'd rather you make the first move, even if we do love you completely.. its not problem waiting though.. just dont wait to long, especially dont let the perfect moment pass when it comes because she might have the same thing on her mind and if you let it go.. she'll think you're not really into her..
good luck!! =]
2007-01-30 20:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love?? If your athletics or what I’m thinking then that would surly not be the right time to tell her. Lust is often confused with love, but make no mistake they or different. It was good of you to hold off. Now that you have find a time when your not engaged in any athletics and find a way to bring up that your feelings or becoming stronger towards them. If they seem to feel the same way, then take the leap.
Love is a wonderful thing, when its shared equally.
2007-01-31 04:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by David K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not too soon. However, wait until some other time. Post-coital bliss is not exactly a time for rational thought and she's not likely to take you seriously at that point.
2007-01-31 03:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a month or two until your really sure that's how you feel. If you already know that's just how you feel then go for it. If she feels the same then it wont scare her off. Good Luck!
2007-01-31 03:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by bitch_goddess_72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be 100% sure of whether you love her or not because once you say it... theres a change in the nature of the relationship and are you ready for that?
2007-01-31 03:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think 3months is to soon to tell her u love her..exspeacally...after u guys just "exercised".. just wait a Lil while longer...and u should be the first one to tell her...cuz if u wait for her to say it..she might think shes pressuring u to say it too...plus to me that how u really know when a guy loves u...as long as its not to soon...(wen he says it first)
2007-01-31 04:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it if you feel its right man. Its an important word, but one that can rarely hurt if used in honesty!
2007-01-31 03:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by rastapunker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, if you are fully confident ! if not , then dont say anything.. but say it with a romantic atmosphere if possible.. and three months is something ! if you dont, then you might lost the chance.. you never know !
2007-01-31 04:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it then say it sweetie, if the time was right then she was probably expecting it yeah i bet she felt it to.
2007-01-31 03:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i should start doing midnite athletics 2~!~!
2007-01-31 04:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋