I need to visit gyneacologist?

Question

I m getting married after 2-3mths and my fiance don't know that i m not a virgin and i don't want to disclose it in front of him.coz everyone know in india nobody accept it...so plz help me how can i hide it from him

Answer 1

Different people define virginity in different ways. Most people agree that virginity means not having had penile-vaginal intercourse. Many people agree that people who masturbate or have other kinds of sex play are still virgins — as long as they don't have vaginal intercourse.

It is true that some people believe that an intact hymen — the thin tissue that stretches across at least part of the opening of the vagina in most girls at birth — is proof of a woman's virginity. But most people do not. They know that it is possible for a woman's hymen to become stretched open through insertive masturbation as well as sports and other non-sexual activities, and they do not believe the condition of the hymen is an accurate definition of virginity.
You can always tell him that you indulge in masturbation that made you to break your hymen. As a guy of today's generation he will understand your sexuality as he himself be indulging in it!!!!

Answer 2

While you are answering the doctor or nurse's questions, you can lie & tell them you are a virgin. Assuming your fiance is with you in the room.
If you are getting an actual physical & pelvic exam, then this can be done by the doctor without your fiance being in the room at that time. You can "confidentially" tell your doctor the truth. The doctor cannot let your fiance know because he/she must protect your right to patient privacy.

Answer 3

I think you are safe. No man can tell you are not a virgin. A woman can feel it the first time but a man can't tell. But you should really be honest with him. Lying is no way to start a marriage. If he ever does find out, he'll leave you anyways.

Answer 4

What exactly are you trying to hide? If it's blood from a broken hymen----forget it---women can have that broken riding a horse, a bicycle etc----... If you haven't had sex in a while your muscles will contract as if you've never had sex.

Starting your marriage off without disclosure is wrong---If you go into your marriage with lying---you'll be lying the rest of your life to this man---

You're probably getting married in an arranged marriage...POOR you---the abuses you'll endure from this kind of marriage.

Answer 5

If your fiance truly loves you, he will accept the truth. Please do not go into a marriage with a lie. You should see a gynocologist to have tests for diseases that are contracted through unprotected sex. I hope you had protected sex when you lost your virginity. Diseases would worry me more than not being accepted.

Answer 6

Just say confidently that you are a virgin if any one asks - there is no way to prove it so you can't be caught out. Just think of your own protection - if you think it will be bad for you if your husband knows the truth simply don't tell him.

Answer 7

There's no way to hide it from him ,you have to tell him the truth, if he loves you he'll marry you anyway.By the way going to a gynecologist is not going to solve your problem aout not being a virgin ,they can'thelp you in that department.

Answer 8

well as long as this information never comes out your ok... a lot of girls hymens don't break when they lose their virginity, so girls don't even have them, so don't worry about that part... just hope your tight, do some kagel exercises... but really if you tell this lie be prepared to take it to your grave, because that is quite the lie my dear!!

Answer 9

Fake it! Get some tomato sauce in to your you know where, just a bit and just fake it. The idiot will never know

Answer 10

see a doctor and ask the doctor for some excercises that can tighten ure vaginal hole. thats the max u can do.