can we make sexual relation with our partner before marrige is it right before marrige ?

Answer 1

YES YOU CAN BUT I DON'T THINK ITS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.

Answer 2

Yes one can always make sexual relation with one's opposite sex partner before marriage, but given the Indian social conditions, customs, values and to add to this the problems one might face due to unwanted pregnancies before marriage we should keep away from pre-marital sex or may I say unprotected sex before one's marriage. Also speaking in the moral context one should keep away from sexual relations in a relationship where there is no scope for commitment so as to have the peace of mind.

Answer 3

It depends on your customs and beliefs. In some cultures, it's a crime punishable by death. In others, it's ignored.

What's "right" depends on the two of you and what your societies say.

If you decide to go ahead, be sure to take precautions against pregnancy. If a couple has sex before marriage, it doesn't have to become publicly known. On the other hand, it's not easy to hide the fact that a woman is pregnant.

Answer 4

When a woman has an orgasm or a sexual relation with someone then something in her brain triggers and makes her emotionally attached to that person. You should not have sex until you are married. Children that are born out of wedlock undergo so much stress and drama and that is not right either.

Answer 5

I'm not a christian anymore, but when I was I could not reconcile this idea of sex = sin, It seems a bizarre equation, since sex is so natural and wonderful, and the supression of it leads to all sorts of problems, and the sin side of the equation just leads to guilt. I came to the conclusion that the bible says a lot about Lust being a sin, and that the church had come to the conclusion that Lust = Sex. So I looked up Lust in the dictionary, and, it said Lust - UNnatural desire for a thing. Since the desire for sex and procreation is ENTIRELY natural, and the suppression of it leads to it being redirected, sometimes in to entirely unhealthy ways (how many abused choirboys??). I decided that the church was plain wrong. What had probably started out in the church as a desire to protect its flock from sexually transmitted desease and unwanted pregnancy and illigitimate children, had been mutated into this mad sexual guilt trip. Since science had liberated (read usurped) the church's authority over sex by giving us condoms, contraception and penicillin, surprise surprise, the pope edicts that using contraception itself is a sin, proof positive that the church has lost the plot, since it seems to be their desire that even married couples should either a)never have sex or b)have kids 'til she drops, and continue to overpopulate the planet. The whole lot seems related to St Paul, who, frankly, I think was a nutter. He was convinced that we were in the end of days, didnt want any one to marry, certainly didnt have sex himself, and well, have you READ revelations? Steven King couldnt get that past his editor!

Answer 6

You may; fearlessly, if desired. No pregnancy risk with condomns & medicines. Premarital sexual experiences with other/s is no offence or punishable (if girl is over 16) in Indian laws. Not a ground for divorce, even if admitted or proved, under Hindu & Special Marriage Acts. Even after the marriage, a women's (wife's) sexual relations with ex partners or others are not prohibited or barred under any Indian Law; yet a ground for husband for divorce. The male having sex with another's wife, without consent or connivance of her husband is punishable and not that wife. On fully satisfying themselves before marriage, they can marry others of their choice fearlessly since not a ground to seek divorce. __________ However a few (commonly known as fundamentalists & orthodox) blindly believe and have unshakeable faith that such sexual relations are the greatest sin; they are afraid of their own belief and faith, fear the unseen one, and refrain from such sex before marriage or with others after marriage even in dark or hiding from others. Their criminal law considers it a big offence and crime, punishable with lashing/death by pelting stones. In such societies, usually there is love and harmony, peace and lack of AIDS. Generally they are satisfied with their spouses and the divorce rate is neglible. However some refrain from their own and do not indulge in such sex.________ZAFARULLAH HYDERABAD INDIA PH: 9247173741

Answer 7

If she wish to have u can but its not right to have it before marriage u wont get the enjoyment

Answer 8

You can do it anytime if you are bound to marry. But only if both off you are 100% comfortable with it. If any one of you has any kind of doubt in your minds, better not do it.

:-)

Answer 9

it depends on the couple. but i suggest wait for the marriage night. till then just pamper her, love her and plan ure marriage and married life.

Answer 10

that depends!! As my fiancee said, if you are going to marry him/her , so it's not a mistake!! but if not, Me, personnally, I take it badly!! So, it's your choice!!

Doing sex is better with your life partner not with you a "***** Partner", i mean a partner who doesn't to marry you!!!

Have a nice dayy,

Mrs K

Answer 11

Well that depends upon your partner. If your partner is ready, you can go ahead.