blind dates??

Question

this guy asked me out on friends advice. thing is i'm really nervouse. supposably he's good looking and that in my experience mean there kinda picky (not always) and well i'm scared he wont be attracted to me, i've been trying to keep my confidence up, and i have a feeling that will just bring it back down.
any suggestion?

Answer 1

Men are not as picky as you women think when it comes to the physicality of a woman. We look at all the photographs of half-clad half-naked women in the checkout and say I want that. But one women in the hand becomes better than 2 in the bush when we are with one.I can almost promise you he will at least one time think about you in a very sexual way. It is how guys are wired. You Women seem to be more hard on yourselves than many men I know. And the ones who do not seem to find you attractive are a waste of your time. There are very few people who could not say one negative thing about his or her body. But there is even less people who can say nothing positive about his/her body. If you want me to give you my honest opinion.(This will be anonomous send me a picture and I will be honest)

Answer 2

Just be yourself & not let pressure get to you. Obviously your mutual friend thought that you 2 were a match.
If he decides your not for him...or you decide he isn't for you it's no big deal.
It only means you 2 werent compatable, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.
Good Luck & just have a good time.

Answer 3

Go on the date and see how it goes, the worse that can happen is nothing comes of it. He's probably just as nervous as you are , remeber you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.

Answer 4

You feel exactly how I feel when I go on a date.

Try to muster up some self-esteem! People can read right through someone who isn't confident in themselves.