Okay then, I never yell at my father (mother? :( she's passed away long time ago...), still sometimes I disagree with him but never has it ended with yelling each other.... I wish and believe that how I treat my parent will be similar to how our children will treat me.... Do you agree with me here? If not, why? Could you give me any reason and example then?
BTW, have your children ever yelled at you? What and why did they yell at you? Do they ever regret it now and then?
2007-01-30 23:01:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm 39 and yes I have yelled at my mom, i respect her but their are circumstances that call for that at times. Yes I felt awful and regretted it . I have a 12 yr old who has told me off & regretted it.
Sometimes we have to speak our minds it depends on the situation.
My mother wants to be dead because my grandmother died, i tried being loving, tried begging, crying...and then i tried tough love.
Noone wants to yell or hurt a parent but sometimes it cant be avoided. We arent perfect & life happens.
2007-01-31 00:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never yelled at my mother growing up, although I did tell her once to "just shut up" and no, I don't regret that. She was a weak person, so I just ignored her as it took far less energy. She was a screamer, though, and screamed at the 3 of us kids over EVERYTHING, from letting us know dinner was on the table to if we were in trouble and after a while it meant nothing at all when she raised her voice. My dad passed away when I was 12, but I would be willing to bet we would have had some words in my teen years as he was bull-headed and so was I.
My (teenage) daughter does not yell at me, although she would occasionally when she was small. I did not respond to being yelled at, but did respond to talking things out and she learned that that is the way that issues can be solved.
I don't scream at her, by the way. It sure wasn't effective with me. I also don't yell at her. I cannot expect her behavior to be more adult and productive when I resort to childish behavior.
2007-01-31 00:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I raised my voice to my dad only one time. He passed away the next morning of a massive heart attack. I never got the chance to say im sorry so yes i have regretted it deeply. Yes my children sometimes raise there voice at me, but i dont think they regret it at all. Children now days are of a different breed.
2007-01-30 23:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People handle situations differently some are silent some yell some are aggressive but i think whenever you argue with a prent sibling or loved one there is always regret whether you yell or not
2007-01-30 23:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I yelled at both of my Parents....My Mom since she was working 3 jobs to support my sister & I & she was never there....I told her once she didnt care...even though, now I know she did..
My Father for leaving while Mom was pregnant with my sister & only coming around when he needed money from Mom...I still dont talk to him....last time was 8 1/2 yrs ago....
My Mother & I are best friends now...I regret the things I said to her when I was a teenager...I didnt understand the things she was doing to support her Family.....
Now, I am 33..with 2 kids of my own....I have been divorced for going on 4 yrs now...& even though my kids are only 7 & 8....my oldest has a REAL problem with yelling at me...he doesnt take to being "bossed around" too much....I dont think he regrets too much of his yelling....unless he has said something that REALLY hits home with me....like "YOUR NEVER HERE!"...
I have 2 jobs & go to School part time....I am hardly home during the evenings, but try my hardest to spend EVERY free second I have with them....I know it is unfair to expect them to understand, that like my Mom did...I have to do, what I have to do, to get them raised & to take care of them.
2007-01-30 23:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by mysticfairy74 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I was upset about something I would always go to my mother. (God rest her soul), ...She would give me her advice and sometimes I would raise my voice to her. We do that because we know they'll forgive us and understand the reason we "yelled". You usually always forgive the ones you love. As for my children? Yes, they've also "yelled" at me during a time when they were upset. ..and yes, I've forgiven them as well...cause I love them.
2007-01-31 00:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by K.W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes iv'e yelled my parents for the reason that i belived that im right on that one incident happened. because not all the time parents are right. there are some instances that they irritate us. some parents think that they are always on the right spot not knowing if that could really affcet to their children. i know that parents do it for us but not to the extent because too much is also not good.
2007-02-04 20:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never think to yell at my parents. They brought me into this world and they would take me out of it if I tried something like that. The same applies to my children. We all simply know better.
2007-01-30 23:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have... I yelled because they kept blaming me without listening.. I don't regret it... I dont have any children..
2007-01-30 23:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Pianoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have, and that i do no longer understand absolutely everyone who hasn't at one evaluate their existence or yet another. i genuinely do remorseful approximately yelling at my mum and dad, I hate it. i understand they only want the wonderful for me, yet now and lower back i only won't have the ability to take it.
2016-11-23 17:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by pilkington 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋