I am a muslim girl and i love a guy, he is hindu.We want to marry. His family are ready to accept me but my father is against with this marriage. What should i do? My all friends gave me an advise to elope with him. My best friend yasmin has also an affair with a hindu guy and they are going to elope and get married. She told me that their is nothing wrong to elope with hindu guy. plz suggest me what should i do? can i elope with him and do a court marriage?
2007-01-30 23:41:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
classic "romeo and Juliet" story. Eloping is not a marriage in front of God-Your God or any other God.
2007-01-30 23:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that Hindu people believe in getting a Jyotish Compatibility Reading. I am not sure about Muslim belief, but it may be a way to have something to present in your favor. Then again it may anger the family if they are against it. Only you would know.
If your father is against the marriage, try to convince him in a nice way. Best not to elope and cause a strain in the family. Try to work it out. It is a world-wide tradition that the father gives the bride away. Your family may be heart-broken.
2007-01-31 08:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by anmlprht 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eloping works but be prepared to not be with your family again. I know that your Dad will be furious and give your Mom a hug before you take off cause it will probably be the last one you ever get. Doesn't matter if you live in the states or not if your folks are against the marriage it will get ugly.
2007-01-31 07:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u can, but if you reali want that "ideal wedding" then get someone else to give you away at the wedding, since u 2 have been tolerant of each other's beliefs then getting married shouldn't be a problem, just mesh traditions that each religion has and it can be a great wedding for the both of you. Don't let your fathers lack of intelligence in this department stop you from living your life.
2007-01-31 07:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a pretty serious case.But eloping in sudden is not good.See if you can convince your parents.It might happen by destiny.This eloping of a sudden wouldn't make you happy.Think it over and if you feel convincing is hard then go on with eloping is all I can say
2007-01-31 07:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muslims can not marry anyone of other religion.Do u believe in your religion?if not, u can elope with him and marry in court.And if u do believe in your religion then tell him to convert his religion,if he is ready to do that.However, u have to follow your heart here.Whar do u want to do?do u love this guy so much to leave your family for him?If u r adamant about your love for him, then u can go ahead with your plan and marry him. U have to know what u want.take care and good luck:)
2007-01-31 07:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Muslim girl too..If you look in the rules,you can marry with him only if he accept your religion..
But,all I can say to you,if it is a real and Strong love,you could break all the walls and bad words and at least be together..
Try to talk to your father and explain him that you love that guy.Maybe he will understand if you tells him all story..Your father is afraid that you will forget who you are and that you will be lost ..Good luck
2007-01-31 07:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by --Breathtaking-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had a crushed on Indian guy....if ur love is pure n sincere, no need to elope. do talk to ur parents, asked him to drop by at d hse n hv a conversation s he really love u. when comes to marriage, how u got marriage is d most important thing...life is like a ball, when u throw a black ball to d wall, it will come back black...meaning, if u elope...there's a chance ur kids will do to...if ur start a happy marriage, start at d begin...although its hard...believe me...im facing it now...be patient n pray to God....
2007-01-31 07:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by tulip2011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a multicultural State like Britain you could become one of the many muslim women who have been killed by their relatives for getting involved with a man from outside the family.
2007-01-31 07:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont thik religion should come into it, not if you really really love each other . your families must compromise and allow you to wed . eloping is not an option .follow your heart.
2007-01-31 07:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by gary k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋