A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, of course I said yes, since I liked him.
Then I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. Yesterday, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking hihim if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hello. He emailed me back saying that I was too weird to be his friend and that we should just continue ignoring each other for both his and my sake and that i was wrong for wanting to hook up with him since he already has a gf. I didn't respond back to him, since he asked me not to. But then he got mad. ??
2007-01-30 23:59:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your best bet is to just ignore him he obviously doesn't know what he wants and is only blaming you for being the reason for his not knowing what he wants.
2007-01-31 00:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't let him jerk your feelings around again. Although you knew he has a gf, he is in the wrong more than you are. With him asking you if you want to hook up with him shows that he is more willing to cheat on his gf. You might just want to just keep thing on professional terms instead of having a relationship with this guy.And you are not weird, it's very obvious that you really into this guy but he's already taken, you called him a dog cuz he was jerking your feelings around which is completely understandable and than you apologized because you regret it cuz you was afraid you probably ruined a chance of having a friendship with this guy all of that is completely understandable.Sound like the guy is just confused to me.......
2007-01-31 08:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by channel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to move on and not worry about being his freind or anything else. He is not worth your time and effort. You are allowing him to bother you so therefore he is winning. You need to respect yourself more than that and just ignore his childish behavior. Drama at work is a very bad idea. Someone always ends up losing their job.
2007-01-31 08:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep ignoring him. Check back in two months to see if he is still with his GF.
2007-01-31 08:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Penelope Yelsopee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason for all this weirdness is sexual tension. best thing to do right now is let things cool down for awhile, give it some time, then later down the track you might become friends again, but for now he has a girlfriend and obvisously loves her.
2007-01-31 08:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you fancy each other vut are too proud to admit. Go for it girl he is yours Gf or no Gf.
2007-01-31 08:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're a horrible person. I can't believe you'd willing encourage him to cheat on his girlfriend. You need a maturity check.
2007-01-31 08:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by uabsupercow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is an idoit, he doesnt no what he wants and its pretty obvissous if he cheated on his gf? but maybe you should ignore him, its for the best.
2007-01-31 08:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you but does not want his gf to kno bcause that would b not good.
2007-01-31 08:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by I ♥ Big Bang! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find another guy..he dosent sound like a friend to me!!
2007-01-31 08:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋