WE FIGHT ALWAYS THOUGH.
2007-01-30 23:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a lot of work and there are times you want to quit but you need to sometimes look at the situation and get your head straight.
Divorce is only ok if you both can not work through your problems.
You really need to think if these are problems that you cant live with or ones that you can. For instance he cheated on you and he is not remorseful about it or he beats you. Can you live with the fact he cheated? or that he beats you? Or do you just have daily fights over little stupid stuff if that is the case then no divorce is not okay you can get past the small stuff.
Sometimes in marriage there is resentment built up and makes it hard to move forward but you cant change the past you can only look ahead to your future. Communicate with out pointing fingers and yelling and placing blame.
Marriage is like a garden you plant the seed and you have to water it and feed it and have to nurture it and weed it in order for it to grow plentiful.
Good luck
2007-01-31 00:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No divorcing is not okay. You have failed at one of the number one challenges of your life when you divorce. It's easy to divorce and very hard to stay married and make a go of a good relationship. Children do not do well when parents divorce. What do you fight about? Why do you fight? Have either of you ever thought of putting God first, others second and yourself third? Have you even thought about putting the children first? Who is the more selfish? What does it hurt to give in to the other person's wants?
Divorcing is not okay even when it happens.
2007-01-31 07:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to address what the root cause is. I would suggest every couple get counseling before they throw in the towel. But divorce is OK of course if you are that un-happy.
2007-01-31 08:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorcing is ok if you are not willing to get any further help or have done everything you could to make a better marriage.
2007-01-31 07:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean if u think its necessary to divorce me personally i would go through some counseling with me and my mate and if it dont work out after dat then its time to get a divorce if da fights are that serious u dont think u can go through counseling then sign them papers
2007-01-31 07:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by firstmetroprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in abuse or cheating its ok but if theres no grounds then no its not ok
2007-02-03 17:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋