Would you confront them? I got on the computer today and hit history and noticed that he had been visitng places I have been to..I clicked on links and found that he had "family logger" hidden on the computer..I searched it and found hidden files of all my emails and pictures to friends..everything I sent and recieved was there..even im converstaions..I feel like he's been spying on me and invading my privacy..should I confront him?
2007-01-30 23:59:01 · 12 answers · asked by kim 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If that happened to me, I think I'd send an email with the subject: BUSTED. In the email I'd say -Dear (his name) you have just been busted. I know that you have been spying on my every move on the computer. I can't help but wonder why you felt it was necessary to spy on me and make me feel like I've been betrayed?
Your apparent distrust of me has now led me to no longer trust you. I suggest you talk to me immediately to explain your behavior. After hearing your explanation, I will decide what action I'm going to take. Sincerely, (your name)
Then see what he says to you. It sounds like he has some sort of trust issue. Maybe you can suggest he seek counseling.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 15:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i'd confront him directly. I've never heard of "family logger", so i'm going to go find that if i can and install on all 3 of my home computers so i can do some spying LMAO.
2007-01-31 00:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Communication! Talk to him, you don't know if you don't ask! Was the family logger installed on the computer previously before you etc...
Ask him why he feels the need to spy on you? Why he doesn't trust you? You have to talk to him, maybe he's insecure etc.. Is there a reason?
2007-01-31 01:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son isn't the one with the problem. As he's a 12 year old child just starting to notice the differences in boys and girls. The problem is you. Why on earth would you see no harm in walking around naked in front of your son?! And don't give any if that "the human body is a natural, beautiful thing" as thats not the point here. The point here, is by allowing your son access to seeing you naked, and your having no probs showing him your naked body, it makes YOU sound like your encouraging Incest between yourself and your son. You're going to scar and twist this kid up for life! You need to get yourself and your son, into counseling. You to discover why you feel the need to be naked in front of your own offspring. And him, to deal with the fact that he has a mom that doesn't understand the boundries between parent and child.
2016-05-23 22:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and ask him why he feels he needs to do this. Make sure you do it in a calm manner or he will get defensive and argumentive. Make sure you find out why he has lost trust to the point of doing this. Then put your foot down and get it off the computer if you find it again take him off the administrator account and lock him out give him a limited user account. That should solve it.
2007-01-31 00:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU SHOULD!!!!!!!! I've caught same thing, except the "family logger". Didn't know about that. Confront him and tell him he's not your Daddy!
2007-01-31 00:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is have you done anything to proke this sort of behavior from him?
Although having a keystroke logger program is wrong, you might have given him a reason to install it.
2 wrongs do not make a right
2007-01-31 00:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes you should and then you ask him why he does not trust you . Then he will probably come up with something lame . If the trust is gone it is best to move on and forget him .
2007-01-31 01:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd spy back and be better at it than they would. 2 can play that game.
2007-01-31 00:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice catch....Give him something to look at. Set up a fake email and mail yourself some "stuff".
2007-01-31 00:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋