Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My boyfriend is making me ill. I ended the relationship due to his binge drinking and putting me in danger due to this. The problem is that he calls me 30 times per day at work, on my mobile so on. He tries blaming me for all his problems by wearing me down saying I have done wrong by not helping, supporting him enough, so on. Then it goes to he loves me and he is sorry, then he calls me to pick on my voice tone and say I am being funny with him because I do not sound happy to hear from him and I am "punishing" him enoough and I am making him ill. I left him due to him drinking at the weekends and being aggresive to me, lying about alcohol consumption and being really controlling, not allowing me male friends, to go out with my friends, wear certain clothes, so on. He says to think of the ggod times we had, which we did sometimes, and to realise im his best friend. But how do you treat your best friend like this? Anybody else out there had this problem and how did it work out for you

2007-01-29 02:56:26 · 17 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

I just answered a question, for someone, asking if they were destined to be alone.......
sometimes i wonder if it wouldn't be easier if we were like animals, and mated, and moved on.

Guess i'm just frustrated, but, again.....why the need, can't people be happy with themselves, and not look to others for their happiness..... oh what a wonderful world that would be.......

2007-01-29 02:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by YOUNG PHILLY 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend said he is going to kill him self if i am pregnant because we are both 16 years old and he is scared of my.

2007-01-29 02:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are going thru a divorce we have an 8 yr old boy. my son blames me for leaving his father. he now throws tantrums and his behavior has changed dramatically. His father to win him is now doing the things he never did before as he should have. I don't want to hurt him but I cant go back. Unfortunately I can't tell him at this age what caused me to leave his father and I have to take the blame from him. but how do I handle his bahavior?

2007-01-29 02:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Carol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Actually since some time i have noticed a guy looking at me near my work place... he's very gd looking too... n after one month he has asked my phone number from one of my friends who knew him very well... now he just called me and seems very interested... the problem is that i came to know he's not as educated as me and i earn better than him... i always wanted to have a bf having a better post n better pay than me... i really regret that my friend gave my number (i asked her to give my number)... n he's calling me to tell me he wants to meet me tomorrow... Do i explain to him nicely what i am expecting from my partner? will he feel bad about it? i really dont know what to do... please help and advise me... thank u

2007-01-29 02:53:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife who used to be my confident and companion has regressed to just one step above my children when it comes to having a conversation with. It is more than that though. I am out in the real world all day long with real issues and other adults. She has friends that she and the kids do things with but they are all stay at home moms also. They all live in a very narrow and very protected world. I make a good living and I am happy she can stay home but I would like her to be a wife as well as a mother. Many times it truly does feel like I am the only adult in the house. She does take care of the kids, that are not the issue, but many times I come home and whatever she has been thinking about all day and wants to talk about is as crazy as what my 5 year old want to talk about. Does anyone else have this issue?

2007-01-29 02:51:55 · 15 answers · asked by Johnny S 2 in Family

My wife who used to be my confident and companion has regressed to just one step above my children when it comes to having a conversation with. It is more than that though. I am out in the real world all day long with real issues and other adults. She has friends that she and the kids do things with but they are all stay at home moms also. They all live in a very narrow and very protected world. I make a good living and I am happy she can stay home but I would like her to be a wife as well as a mother. Many times it truly does feel like I am the only adult in the house. She does take care of the kids, that are not the issue, but many times I come home and whatever she has been thinking about all day and wants to talk about is as crazy as what my 5 year old want to talk about. Does anyone else have this issue?

2007-01-29 02:51:35 · 10 answers · asked by Johnny S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am invited to my brother's engagment party he is having a little party only the close family members but the problem is my older sister is also going who i dont talk to because she caused alot problems to me throughout my life and I havnt spoken to her for the last four years and I am happy this way and I dont want to see her or talk to her but how can i go to the party and do this and not show the other people that we dont talk to each others , I am looking for a reason to excuse myself from this party without hurting my brother please give me your honest opinion and if you tell me that I can go and there might be a chance of reconcilition between me and her that is not going to happen because there is a lot damege is been done please help me . thanks

2007-01-29 02:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Family

The problem is we are not married and don't know if this would be an issue. My son's father has been out of the picture since he was 2. He is now 6. He hasn't paid my child support since he was 3. I didn't want any hassles with him if we ended up splitting up (wich happened 4 months after my son was born), so I did not add his name on the birth certificate and he has my last name. He calls my boyfriend Dad and he's been providing for him since he was 3.
I live in Ontario, Canada. Please help!!!

2007-01-29 02:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by le_onesa 1 in Family

how does communication hinder a good relationship?
how does it promote a good relationship

2007-01-29 02:50:31 · 12 answers · asked by Fatie B 1 in Family

I'm confused here, so apparently, its perfectly ok to sleep around while your dating. In fact screw as many people as possible. But then after marriage, oh my god, its the end of the world if you try to get freaky with somone other than your wife. Does marrige erase the past? If so, why do so many people still cheat anyway. Is marriage just a fairytale nowdays?

2007-01-29 02:50:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

girlfriend and a new dog? After a year the dog is still excited to see you.

2007-01-29 02:50:04 · 12 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

So I met this girl online and talked to her on AIM and everything seemed to go well. I would really like to ask her to dinner to get to know her better. Is asking online a bad thing and then getting her # to confirm the date and is it too soon to ask only the 2nd time you chatted online? I feel that I can't stall too long since I have waited in past and other guys moved in and I lost my opportunity. Plus she seems pretty great and she is very cute so it seems to make the window of opportunity smaller.

2007-01-29 02:49:54 · 10 answers · asked by styler 2 in Singles & Dating

kicked him out. I dont think they were doing anything, but he knew how I felt about her. He dated her when we broke up previously last year. It hurt me really bad and we got back together.

We have been off and on for 6 years. I love him, but I was not very happy over all. We never did anything and he always went out with his friends. I dont mind him going out with friends, but it was like every night or every other night. I was just tired of it all - cleaning and cooking and him leaving.
It has been a month and now he says he wants to be with me he loves me. I keep telling him I cant trust him and he hurt me bad. I said you had a month to show me and you didnt. Am I wrong? How is a relationship supposed to be after 6 years? Should I wait until he acts like he wants to be with me,going out etc? Or just leave him alone for a while? Im scared of losing him, and Im scared of living my life not knowing if there was someone who would treat me better.We will always be close.

2007-01-29 02:49:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm meeting a man I've been talking to online and want to make a great first impression. What should I wear to look the best? I'm in good shape and wanted to wear a skirt and high heels. What do you men think? Would jeans be better? The restaurant we're going to is casual so anything would be appropriate.

2007-01-29 02:49:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes he just doesn't meet my needs I have tried to explain it to him and guide him through but he doesn't seem to get it!! What do I do??

2007-01-29 02:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Singles & Dating

Because most of them are violent,they like to talk any kind of way, they like to bit their women ................

2007-01-29 02:47:57 · 10 answers · asked by BOOKEY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, why is it so tough to hook up with the right one? Im on my mid 20's and I feel like settling down for good. I dont want to play games anymore. EVery new relationship gets my hopes up but ends been a disappointment. Is it just me? Or I just have not find the right one? Is there such thing as the right one? Its just so damn tough to get over a girl I used to love so much. But her feelings eroded quite fast and I cant figure out what went wrong? I mean, I tried my best to keep it going, but she just wont help things work out. What have I done wrong, why is it so tough to move on? I know I should just forget about her, but I cant help it. Ladies, what can I do. Im on a verge of mental breakdown........Its so damn tough, I wish I can just meet a new girl today and help me move on in life. Its just too much for me to handle....

2007-01-29 02:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if I am supposed to get like my cake and punch servers, guestbook attendant, and hostess a small gift? These people are my good friends or realtives, and my mom says shes never gotten anything for serving cake or anything like that so you don't have to, but I just wondered if she was just an exception and you actually are, or if giving them something isn't typical. I'm not talking a huge gifts, just a nice candle or something like that to show I appreciate them, but if that would be wierd I don't want to.

Also, I have a good family friend singing in the ceremony---do I pay her since I am paying the friend whose playing the trumpet, or should I get her a gift ceritficate to go eat or something, or will a nice thank-you card suffice? whats the general opinion!? Thanks!

2007-01-29 02:46:59 · 13 answers · asked by ASH 6 in Weddings

I work at a big company. In my department I work with about 40 people. I've been working there as a receptionist for about three years. My parents are paying for the dinner reception of only 125 guest. My parents told me that I can't invite everyone at work to my dinner reception but they are welcome to come to the church ceremony and be part of that. But I feel so bad because I work with my co- workers everyday and there like family and I see them everyday. I know that the dinner reception is just for immidiate family. I really have a huge family and we are all very close but I just can't invite everyone at work to the dinner reception. But I would love for my co-workers to be there at the wedding ceremony. I have some explained that at work and everyone understands but I would love to just do a ceremony invitation just for my co-workers- How do I word that.- And also I know that they will feel a little uncomtable because everything will be in spanish and noone in my office speaks spa

2007-01-29 02:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by Ceci 1 in Weddings

My wife and I got married about a year ago. We’ve blended families and things haven’t been a piece of cake. My question is this: my wife used to call me in the mornings and be really upset if she didn’t hear from me in the mornings. Now it seems that if I call her, she’s super busy at work or doesn’t return my calls. I think she needs more space for whatever reason so I’m giving it to her. Problem is every time I say look I think I need to give you more space, she freaks out and then wants me to call every day. Then I do that and she gets distant like it’s no big deal that she talks to me. It’s actually driving me nuts. There’s something going on in her life it seems and I just can’t figure it out. Now when I ask her why didn’t she call me back if I call her she always has some lame excuse like we’ll my day was really busy but then I see that she had time to go to lunch and stop by Mcdonald’s but didn’t have a second to call me. I feel like saying OK I get the message you’re just not that into me anymore I’ll leave you alone. Then when I leave her alone, she gets upset. Anybody know what’s going on with her?

2007-01-29 02:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

isnt as 'big' as my last boyfriend and this really bugs me. What can I do?

2007-01-29 02:45:43 · 14 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

well i am an ugly man.what should i do.

2007-01-29 02:45:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

YOU END UP HAVING TO CALL HIM BACK ANYWAYZ!!!!

2007-01-29 02:45:17 · 29 answers · asked by shay16lips 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have no idea what to do, ok there a dude that i really like, and i'm guess he likes me well due to fact that we endind up kissin other week, (both sober) and well my feelings are kinda grownin for him like when ever i see him, my stomache does a back flip, but hes got a child, do i take the jump? or not?? bearing in mind i adore kids and i'd proberbly get attached which makes hings harder if we did get togeather and spit up... what can i do?

2007-01-29 02:45:12 · 39 answers · asked by Lescaa 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

was a friend from schooldays would like to see how she has faired.

2007-01-29 02:45:05 · 2 answers · asked by happy chappy 5 in Friends

I am a girl with good career.i am having average look and from a lower middle class family.I got engaged before 8 months.He told me at the first meet that you are physically not perfect match for me and i need to improve my self.After 4 months he told me that he is feeling his decision was wrong as i could not change my personality as per his dream person. I had tried and I am trying to be his dream person because i love him. But now i think his patience have been finished. And his behaviour have become bit rude toward me. he is a kind of tensed person and dont want to make our parents and me hurted by breaking the relationship. So he is ready to marry me just because others even though he dont love me.Due to this tension,i am loosing my career and my happieness. he is very good human in nature. i dont want to hurt him also. But i cant see him in tenstion always. how can i trust him that i will change and how can i make our lifes happier?Should i marry him?i want to do justice 2 both.

2007-01-29 02:43:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When the priest says "Speak now or forever hold you peace" and multiple people object, what happens with the wedding? does it continue?

2007-01-29 02:43:33 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer P 1 in Weddings

2007-01-29 02:42:49 · 3 answers · asked by SASHA 1 in Weddings