Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

they trust me and all but they don't give me space. they check my IM list to see who im talking to and they even listen into my phone calls!

2007-01-29 02:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can I get the trust back and start getting our marrage back on track

2007-01-29 02:26:37 · 19 answers · asked by Tina D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One is very attractive, 10 years older, but has a very demanding job and teenage kids so he doesn't have much time for me. He is a very sweet man. He is not that emotional but I know he love me very much. More than he has ever loved anyone. The other guy is less attractive, 18 years older, has a good job, but always has time for me. He is a rock for me as I am going through a hard time (mom has cancer). He loves me very much and wants us to be together forever. We have history together. They both know about the other - so there are not secrets. Who do I choose?

2007-01-29 02:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by Kitt 3 in Singles & Dating

We are not kids....this seems weird and yet I do understand because I am a MoM myself with a teenage boy...what is this all about and what can I do to help and have a fuctional relationship?

2007-01-29 02:25:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Meaning what do you do for a living? To men that seams like we are being screened and sized up by how much we make. Instead of a women showing interest in who we are and our character.

2007-01-29 02:24:52 · 15 answers · asked by tfh777 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 year guy, completely normal. I was in a relationship with 2 women at the same time for 7 years. The second woman is the girl friend's sister. Ever since I have slept with her, I dont find any other woman attractive. I am very upset about this. However due to some strongs reasons I had to break up with both of them...( it is not possible for me to get back to any one of them ) but then ever since I have noticed that other women dont attract me. I am still in love with the second woman ( my girl friend's sister )...due to some unavoidable reasons I hate her...and dont want her back in my life...and she was gone for gud far away from me...The problem is I still miss her when ever I think of sex, as I never got satisfied after she left me. I tried alot of things like trying different type of girls, falling on love again, prostitutes, thinking positive, but then problem still remains. please help me, has anybody have an advice.

2007-01-29 02:24:49 · 20 answers · asked by sumeetoo 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this true or are they to drunk to know what they are saying or are they just horney and want some.

2007-01-29 02:24:25 · 13 answers · asked by Inactive 1 in Singles & Dating

She is abrasive, nitpicking and a bully. No a break up doesn't seem like an option. My health is going for a toss. How do I cope?

2007-01-29 02:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by september_serenade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want the orange chat rooms because there full of dirty ol men, id like to make friends over the world but im on a low income so do you know any free chat rooms to chat (not to pervos)

2007-01-29 02:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay. I have a 5 year old son and I got divorced about 8 months ago from a 6 year marriage. My son just had a party for his birthday and my ex,his dad,didn't even bother to call him for his birthday and he has told me that he didn't want to know anything about us. My son asked me if his daddy was going to be at the party, and I told him no and that we wouldn't see daddy anymore (his choice). Then he tells me "Mommy, but I need a daddy." he was sobbing. I of course tried to stay strong and explain that Mommy is a mommy and daddy for him now and I will provide everything to him and etc. But inside I'm dying at this point and am close to a break down. I have a new friend, which is a male, and nothing else. Well, he brings my son a gift for his birthday and my son asked me if he was going to be his new daddy and I explained that he was just mommy's friend. What can I do? How can I prevent him from feeling pain? I grew up w/o a dad and it was hard. I don't want this to affect him.

2007-01-29 02:22:47 · 31 answers · asked by jen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy last night, I have known him, but last night was the first time I had actually talked to him. He got my number from one of his friends. He called me. Me and a gf where going to eat last night, I told him he was welcome to come with us if he wanted. He bought our dinner.

We are going out again tonight...I'm gonna offer to pay for dinner...Do you think I should, since he bought last night....

2007-01-29 02:22:41 · 11 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by Karan 2 in Family

Ok I want to give my boyfriend a night to remember on valentines weekend so what is the best thing that your girlfriend has ever done to you in bed taht i could use!!!! Help me PLZ!!!!

2007-01-29 02:21:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:20:52 · 10 answers · asked by Karan 2 in Family

Yes, I'm American male.

Can also bracket it to age group,too.

Any personality difference between girls from small
cities,medium cities,and large cities ?

Any personality difference in education level : college drop
out,B.S,M.S. ,Ph.d. ?

2007-01-29 02:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by curley3 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been fighting for custody of his children for almost a year now..he had an evaluation done which shown that the children would be better off with their mother because he had been deployed to Iraq for 2 years and the fact that we were moving to a different state..the mother has had the children taken away 2 times already for having her home in unsanitary conditions and is currently being investigated for medical neglect..it seems like no matter what he does the mother (as neglectful as she is) is never wrong..his children are 9, 3 and 7 years old so they cannot choose where they want to live..any guys out there with children..what would you do? Would you let it go and agree with the evaluation or would you continue to fight?

2007-01-29 02:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jessi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i'm in love but i'm not sure

2007-01-29 02:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I have given him several pictures but he never puts them up. He does have pics up of his daughter. Interestingly, when I took his pictures down from my bedroom he got very upset. So should I worry? It means a lot to me, but perhaps men really don't care about that kind of stuff? Any opinions? (oh, and yes I've been told I'm attractive so it's not because I'm a dog, in case you're wondering)

2007-01-29 02:20:05 · 9 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4 in Singles & Dating

So I am having quite the problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. The 1st 3 mths were OUT OF THIS WORLD. I have never been so happy in my life. He brings out the best in me, I LOVE doing nice things for him, I love living with him, he is caring, genuine, trustworthy, & VERY attractive. But the problem is I am questioning my love for him CONSTANTLY. This has been going on for the past 2 mths and I dont think that I would be putting up with this anxiety about our relationship if I really didnt love him? To this day, I love sharing all my stories with him and enjoy spending nights alone with him. I have never trusted anyone before in my life and finally I trust him which makes me think that I dont care about him. I think before I used to think I loved them cause I trusted them and was jealous of them. This is my 1st non-dramatic relationship and I feel secure but I have this nagging doubt in my mind that its not going to work out for whatever reason but I only want him. I dont want anyone else to touch me. Why am I having these thoughts?

2007-01-29 02:19:31 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've gone out with several white girls at school, but I simply cant connect. Different music, different food, different everything. The only thing we have in common is school. Pretty boring conversation after a while.
When I date Hispanics, it's totally different. Cant stop talking because we share so much in common, but here at school, there are no Hispanics.

2007-01-29 02:18:24 · 17 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I married almost 3 months ago. He's changing day to day. When we got married he became more controlling. Not jealous or following me or anything like that but, definitely more controlling. He told me numerous times before we got married that he was going to stop smoking (pot) and even tried and did. Now that we are married he does it all of the time and I asked him why he tried to stop b4 we got married and now he smokes all the time and doesn't care how it makes me feel, he told me now we are married and I can c the true him. Also, he won't take responsibility for anything he does wrong, it is always my fault. If I try to talk about issues we have he says that I'm just trying to start an argument. Also, I can come home from work and if he feels like being touched or talked to then I can touch or talk to him but, if not and I try to he gets mean about me leaving him alone. I'm a church girl and he used to hold the cuss words in front of me. Now, he just lets them fly and even calls me whore and tells me to shut the f*c* up quite often. Last night we were watching a movie on 2 seperate couches (always snuggled during a movie b4 we got married), I asked him 2 come lay on the couch with me and he sayed he might get 2 comfy and fall asleep. Then, when it came time 2 go 2 bed he was extremely awake & ready for sex. I said no, I was too tired ( just hurt from him not snuggling w/ me). I told him he doesn't spend time with me like he did b4 we got married. I told him that I come home from work and try 2 talk 2 him but, he just watches T.V. or plays PS2, he said that I start talking 2 him while he is trying 2 watch something. I told him that I don't care about T.V. I've missed him all day and would like 2 talk 2 him. He said that I can talk to him on commercials. On Saturday, we got into an argument and he punched the steering wheel in our truck and broke it. A few minutes later he told me he wanted a divorce. Of course he didn't want a divorce, that was just so I would beg him not to leave and I did. Sunday turned out about the same way as Saturday, he said he was leaving for a while and I told him that I don't care what happens I was just tired of the arguing and asked him not to leave. He stayed. Yesterday, I felt like he was pushing his control limits a little. With a comment here or there about something I could or could not do. I'm worried now that he thinks he has a lot more control over me. Since I'm the one that asked him to stay. Any thoughts? Also, he made a comment about me calling and talking to my parents all of the time. I talk to my parents about twice a day at the most and it's usually not even when I'm with him. Any thoughts

2007-01-29 02:16:38 · 14 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 02:15:24 · 20 answers · asked by USS 1 in Singles & Dating

I am asking this under my wife's log on.....I lost a battle for visitation rights to my son due to having a REALLY bad attorney....I pay child support, paid my ex's mediation fees, paid half of the medical bills for my son, paid for the paternity test....I did everything I was supposed to do....her defense was my irresponsibility due to my age (i am 23, she is 33) and she said in court that i was a convicted felon (burglary charge when i was 13 years old) and my attorney did not say a WORD to defend me....sooooo....i got ONLY every other weekend visitation (no holiday, birthdays, father's day, nothing) and she got SOLE parental responsibility.....we were not married (in case anyone asks), it was a one night stand but I am trying to take repsponsibility and be in my son's life.....the question is.....should I file for a modification of final judgment???? i want my son!!!

2007-01-29 02:14:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lori W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a bad skin condition that she is getting treatment for... the medicine has made her face break out really bad over the last week.... we were at dinner and I had said something that made her laugh, and at that time, I actually witnessed a fat pimple burst on her forehead above her eye.... it sprayed juice all onto the table. She did not notice and I didnt say anything either...thing is, I am kinda grossed out now because I am positive the load ended up on my plate...but I ate it. How can I avoid this in the future?

2007-01-29 02:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Singles & Dating

You tell your partner that "I want you to be with me or me to be with you, whatever works best"?

2007-01-29 02:14:28 · 17 answers · asked by happyblonde 4 in Singles & Dating

I am an indian( south Indian), I always wanted to date a white girl. Well just to see how it is, I dont have any bad intentions behind. In fact, i went to date with this white girl few times but nothing didnt work out. I would say, dating a white girl is sort of like one of my dream coming true. I know it sound's crazy, doesnt it?

2007-01-29 02:13:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here goes. My roomate and his friends are a little negative towards women these days, ok moe is friends than him.. Anyway everybody joked about not getting a girl a thing for valintines day and I said I would just go to Wal-mart and buy a couple of dozen of roses and bags of candy and put one of each on their desk.
I will do it before they get in so no one will think Im a nice guy..uhh nice guy hate that.. I told them its just a gesture to boost team moral . I dont want to be discovered as doing this. I dont want the attention .

Anyway they laughed and called me a fool. I dont care. My question is though to the ladies though would this be a nice effort to do that on the downlow?? Once again I dont want to be discovered, but I dont mind boosting moral for the office on that day

2007-01-29 02:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

So I had a crush on this guy when I was 15 and we were talking. But at school he acted as if he didnt know me. So I let it go and he he moved to another state and I thought that I was over him. Then almost two years later he found me on Myspace and told me to call him and so I did. He didnt answer and said he was going to call but never did. And I still think about him. But I dont understand why. So what the hell is wrong with me?

2007-01-29 02:10:56 · 12 answers · asked by ariyana 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl I like and she likes me, we kissed few times...no sex....but right know we are putting things off on a slow burner...we both are freshly out of long terms relation ships
so we don't want to do anything stupid
we do hangout every once in a while, go to restaurants, movies etc
question is when we go to the movies and she sits next to me and her legs are crossed in the way that her upper leg is pointing towards me and she touches my knee with her foot very very gently....not just by accident she keeps the contact for minutes at a time or until I move my legs. but at the same time she keeps her hands close to her so I can't hold her hand maybe she is just to shy to extend her hand?..is this some kind of a sign? Also when I look at her she would glance back but quickly turn away...
and she always gives me hugs and kiss on a cheek, but lately every once in a while she would place her hand on my chest and gently slides it down to where my stomach begins...this happens quick

2007-01-29 02:09:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this girl and we are like the same person. Is it possible to have too much in common?

2007-01-29 02:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by bastardo 2 in Singles & Dating