I am 24 year guy, completely normal. I was in a relationship with 2 women at the same time for 7 years. The second woman is the girl friend's sister. Ever since I have slept with her, I dont find any other woman attractive. I am very upset about this. However due to some strongs reasons I had to break up with both of them...( it is not possible for me to get back to any one of them ) but then ever since I have noticed that other women dont attract me. I am still in love with the second woman ( my girl friend's sister )...due to some unavoidable reasons I hate her...and dont want her back in my life...and she was gone for gud far away from me...The problem is I still miss her when ever I think of sex, as I never got satisfied after she left me. I tried alot of things like trying different type of girls, falling on love again, prostitutes, thinking positive, but then problem still remains. please help me, has anybody have an advice.
2007-01-29 02:24:49 · 20 answers · asked by sumeetoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its normal when u love someone not to find any1 esle attractive. Give a few months and try to forget about her. Maybe you should just sustain from having sex altogether for awhile until you get over her. That may help you to appreciate other women if you don't have sex for awhile. Try not to masturbate a lot either and when you do don't think about her...do it to porn or a mag or something other than your imagination.
Good luck dude
2007-01-29 02:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the dating world!! Kind of sucks sometimes, eh?!
Like it or not, it seems that you are either still in love with the second woman OR you are still upset about how you two broke up. Been there, done that. You have two options:
1) Try to get in touch with her and tell her how bad you feel about breaking up. Tell her that you are not trying to get back together and you are sure she is going to tell you to f*** off, but that it irrelavent because you are saying this to her for yourself, not her.
2) Just go on with your life and it will go away in several months or a year or so. (This option I do NOT recommend. When I did this, I had a hard time getting it up for weeks and I thought something was wrong with me. It was at that time when I first learned that the biggest sex organ there is is between your ears.)
Good luck!
2007-01-29 02:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by eyedoc999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some serious psychological counseling. First to figure out why you would date and carry on a relationship with two sisters in the first place. Good luck, you have a moral issue, an emotional issue, etc. Good luck and perhaps you should consider being alone for awhile and figuring things out before you being another relationship. God bless****
2007-01-29 02:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you should try to get over this woman before you start messing with other women. Don't play with an innocent woman's emotions just because you aren't over your problems. Second, you say you hate this woman but you still are attracted to her. Obviously you don't hate her then. You need to work hard to get over this relationship and move on. You're only hurting yourself.
2007-01-29 02:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice posible, see a therapist.
Anything you get off this message board won`t help. You need to discover some things about yourself before the problem will go away.
2007-01-29 02:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you'll be attracted to another woman, but this is punishment for being unfaithful. Learn from your mistake, get comfortable with yourself and live righteously...I'm sure you'll be blessed with love again!
2007-01-29 02:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan's Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry buddy, but you deserve to feel like this its what you get for 2 timing your g/f and thinking noone will get hurt now all 3 of you are hurting no advice apart from dont do it again u fool!!!!
2007-01-29 02:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by kittyprobs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. All girls on some level are attracted to girls except gynecologist. Some girls just wont admit it.
2016-03-29 07:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get along with the one you want and tell the other the honest reason...and it will run fine...
2007-01-29 02:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about sex for a while, do sports, hobbies have friends it will come back very soon
2007-01-29 02:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋