I've gone out with several white girls at school, but I simply cant connect. Different music, different food, different everything. The only thing we have in common is school. Pretty boring conversation after a while.
When I date Hispanics, it's totally different. Cant stop talking because we share so much in common, but here at school, there are no Hispanics.
2007-01-29 02:18:24 · 17 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I go to school in boony town.
2007-01-29 02:28:28 · update #1
that's a stereotype. i know a lot of white girls who like rap, dress in an urban style, and "everything" - just look for the right one, regardless of the race... don't rule any certain race out, because every person is different.
2007-01-29 02:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are black then. LOL Well sucks you cant understand how we are. I am personall hispanic and white but i take myself as being just a regular white girl. Most of the people say i am ghetto and very down to earth so alot of black and hispanic trying to holla at me all the time. Never a white boy because they are the ones that feel intimidated and we dont have too much in common. Like you said music, food, things to talk about. Not all white girls are borring and stupid. Dont just steretype ony of the race or i can bring this whole Yahoo joint to attention by streotyping black guys. Ok?
2007-01-29 02:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a thought... focus on you school work and not about dating right now... you can have friends... who knows perhaps you'll find a really good friend that does share the same interests. school is hard enough, so focus on what you need to cause if you want a white girl!! they are high maintenance and you'll need a good paying job to stand up to their expectations (and their families) uhhh! i am a white girl, with a lot of mix... i am white because i can't get a freaking tan!! interracial dating is hard, but MORE then likely the white girls parents, are NOT 100% Americans either... i hate when people say crap like that... i am 27 years old and i have yet to meet someone that has parents-grandparents etc... that started all the way back here in America... they are called native American... so if they are raciest, then they don't like them selves either... mixing races is not just black white...Hispanic--black\white... i am German Italian dutch french native American and yep hillbilly!! so for me i am the Heinz 57 of America! god bless us all!!
2007-01-29 02:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hotonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that you should talk about is your goals and where your life is going. Also, tell stories about yourself that make you look good without bragging. Things that show you are a man, you take chances, you stand up for your freinds, etc., but not ones that show you are stupid or reckless. The funnier the better. The differences can be interesting, but it sounds like you bring them into play too early in the relationship. Introducing new food and new music are part of what you'll be bringing to the table--showing her your world--but you need to learn more about hers as well. If you make interesting stories out of it, you can talk about anything and keep things interesting. If you can bring yourself to listen to rock or country, it could help. Also, after the first hour of knowing her, you can let her talk a lot more--see what she finds interesting. But try to play up your commonalities at first--the differences are better saved for later.
If I were you though, I'd take mental notes through the day of cool topics of conversation to save for later. (The 'weird news' section of the paper helps a lot with this.) The other thing is to think of times in your life that were exciting, interesting stories, and make these stories as entertaining as possible.
2007-01-29 02:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to connect with people on a postive level is to either find something you have in common or to already have something in common in the first place. Sexual chemistry wears off quickly if there's no intellectual connection. Be true to yourself first and don't try so hard.
2007-01-29 02:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, i didn,t know there was a best way to date white girls.
That aside why {other than just to get laid} would you even want to date someone you have absolutely nothing in common with ?Besides do you have to date a girl from your school? Last i checked it wasn,t a law.
2007-01-29 02:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by whitewinged1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Hispanic girls aren't at your school, where are they? If they are somewhere else in your community, seek them out. Go with a friend to where they hangout, and meet some of them.
2007-01-29 02:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Bird Breath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interracial relationships can cause problems for a lot of families! Keep that in mind, but remember there are some that like that and you just have to find the right ones.
2007-01-29 02:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you should probably date girls from other schools. Then you can find someone you have more in common with. Good luck to you on your dating. God bless****
2007-01-29 02:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't kow if it has anything to do with race or color, i think you just don't have anything in common with the girls you have dated. Tyr looking for a girl you have something in common with
2007-01-29 02:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋