So I am having quite the problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. The 1st 3 mths were OUT OF THIS WORLD. I have never been so happy in my life. He brings out the best in me, I LOVE doing nice things for him, I love living with him, he is caring, genuine, trustworthy, & VERY attractive. But the problem is I am questioning my love for him CONSTANTLY. This has been going on for the past 2 mths and I dont think that I would be putting up with this anxiety about our relationship if I really didnt love him? To this day, I love sharing all my stories with him and enjoy spending nights alone with him. I have never trusted anyone before in my life and finally I trust him which makes me think that I dont care about him. I think before I used to think I loved them cause I trusted them and was jealous of them. This is my 1st non-dramatic relationship and I feel secure but I have this nagging doubt in my mind that its not going to work out for whatever reason but I only want him. I dont want anyone else to touch me. Why am I having these thoughts?
2007-01-29 02:19:31 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Short answer is you like drama, and this relationship has been very undramatic, so you are trying to create some by questioning your feelings. Stop it. If you have a good relationship then go with it. If you get a nagging thought just start singing your favorite song in your head instead, or you're going to risk losing, what sounds like a very happy relationship.
2007-01-29 02:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are saying. You think because you don't feel any jealousy that it may not be true love.If you're relationship is all that you say it is then embrace it. Do you know how many girls who would love to have what you have? The green-eyed-monster makes you feel miserable, just sick at times and don't let it destroy what you have. If this relationship lasts, there will be plenty of drama down the road and you will need this perfect stability to fall back on.
2007-01-29 11:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may worry too much and you might have a bit of obsessive-compulsive about you, but I can't say for sure. Just relax, enjoy the relationship you have, and use common sense. Women usually have a keen sense of intuition, so play it by ear.:)
2007-01-29 11:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with this man, give him a chance. You deserve happiness and so does he. Just love him and love life. It sounds like you are fretting over nothing.
2007-01-29 11:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in love with im--but be careful of what you experienced before--don't let your past crap spill over into this one and don't be possessive--keep yoyrself in check--constantly--or you may lose him too.
2007-01-29 10:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a drama queen, relax and enjoy what you have!
2007-01-29 10:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Domino's Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋