Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

I know looks should not be important ,but come on i mean he's really bad looking. It was bad enough he told me he's a nerd, but now that i've seen him i don't want to meet him.Here's the problem when were online chatting he is evertything a girl could ask for, respectful, kind and funny, i could talk to him for hours.I am not pretty miss perfect, but i'm not bad looking either, what do i say to him i don't want to bust out laughing if i do ever meet him.

2007-01-29 01:41:03 · 27 answers · asked by seialie (pronounced sally) 2 in Singles & Dating

hi Friends,
I have engaged with a girl before 8 months.
At first meet, i didnt liked her,lookwise and due to her personality.i had also told her.She was well educated same like me and her nature is also very good so i agreed to do engagement by thinking that personality can be change by little efforts.Another thing was we cant find such educated girls in our community.Later She had tried to change her personality but she cant do as i have ever desired for my wife. Now within this 8 months she started to love me and i am at the same place with the thought that i havent found my dream life partner. Now day by day my behavior toward her is being worst.She is tolerating all this but she also seeks me to love her.How can i love her if i cant find my desired life partner in her???? if i marry her i am feeling i have lost something in my life. Should i marry her or break the relationship? Please suggest me. what should i do??

2007-01-29 01:38:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im in love with a wonderful peron whose life had been scarred with a previous marriage, the divorce is not yet worked out as she is the only earning member of her family and there are troubles that have been surfacing evrytime we try to settle the divorce.my family knows about her and i happened to b from the south side of india where materialistic ideals and pride happened to b a very nasty element of society.they look at her with eyes of hate, without knowing who she really is and what really happened to make things go wrong in her life.im the only son of a single mother, who thinks i hate her so much coz of this girl, i hav tried my best to make my mum see this girl but she refuses and baks out coz she says the rest of the family will never approve.i hav thought a lot, hell im living thru it as i write this.jus wanted to know what the public poll would think about.why is it necessary that we need to please evrybody so much and lay down wht we choose for ourselves?

2007-01-29 01:37:28 · 18 answers · asked by tonal syndrome 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it too painful?

2007-01-29 01:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

sorry my English is not very good

2007-01-29 01:36:31 · 21 answers · asked by Andres 4 in Singles & Dating

i had an online relationship with this guy for more than 2 yrs.
We've felt like we are almost close to each other.
Last year, he told me about this current affair he had with a married women.
It was hard to accept this...but he said that its all about sex and I have forgiven him.
I thought all is over with her, but the girl is really after him.
My heart crushed and i really got sick. My plans to see him suddenly change now.
i dont know if i can trust him again, though i still have feelings for him.

I think you should meet someone first before we really fall for any person online. And when meeting them make sure your with someone for safety.

2007-01-29 01:35:51 · 16 answers · asked by mplus2004 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told from my company to move to LA. There's a lot more project I could work on, and will have free house and a car.
My bf was devastated, saying "You don't want to be with me, than that's your choice, I can't make your decision". But I wasn't willing to be apart with him. I had long distance in my mind, but for him, he thought going away = willing to be separated.
After our conversation, bf told me how he had plans to start business in Thailand next year...but he had second thoughts cuz I am a city girl and thought he would loose me if he moved.
I want him to know taht he won't loose me, even we will be having miles between. Can I suggest a long distance, or should it come from a man? I have thought about staying, but I can't obtain visa easily without being engaged.

2007-01-29 01:35:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tend to be a really neverous person, are there any ways I can reduce my stress or tension ?

2007-01-29 01:35:32 · 11 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My two boys confided in me that my friend's son told them he was he did alcohol and pot. I struggled with telling her because I knew she would be in denial. Her son is an athlete in HS. I was very careful how I told her, now she is saying my two boys are lying. My 10 year old son actually heard her son telling my son in the same room. Now she is accusing both of my kids of lying. I thought I was doing her a favor, because I would be grateful for someone telling me for my own child's welfare. She told me he never did pot or alcohol then slipped and said he did admit to trying alcohol so I caught her in a boldface lie. Any advice?

2007-01-29 01:35:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i always like sitting alone and hardly talk with others or make new friends..how can i change myself ?

2007-01-29 01:32:02 · 13 answers · asked by M.D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 01:31:16 · 9 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 01:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by badboyz_27 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 01:30:55 · 3 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

Its been mostly stupid stuff. However, I have real concerns I want to discuss with him but everytime I try it turns into a screaming match and he starts name calling. He is truly inverting and not talking to me any more and I'm afraid its because of depression. I don't know what to do, I love him very much but my daughter and I need him, I just don't know how long I can hang around for the anger-fest...any advice?

2007-01-29 01:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by Mommy to One 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 01:30:15 · 26 answers · asked by anayara92 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

. I went out with this guy once and we both still like each other but like a lot I just wanted to know if it ok to go out with them again

2007-01-29 01:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this married guy for over four years.when we met we made it very clear that some day i have to move on meet sombody single and get married. Now, we have been having problems lately resulting in fights and i told this guy i didnt want to have a relationship with him but just be friends. He agreed because he knows he can never make me happy the way i would like. We have been friends but their some habits that he cant stop right away. Ever since i made a decison, i have been doing my own things and its been exciting unlike before because i used to consider his feelings.He still comes home and sometimes he wants to be intimate with me. I now find it very odd because i have fallen out of love with him and i cant tell him straight. His my friend but i wnat him to concentrate on his family too. I met a single guy and were getting off well, now i dont know how to tell my ex to stop visiting me unexpectedly. I dont want to offend him but he has to let me go.

2007-01-29 01:29:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding is in October and the men will be in dark blue. I was thinking a pale sage, light green for the bridesmaids but now I am not sure. Please you input would help.

2007-01-29 01:29:51 · 23 answers · asked by sammyw1024 3 in Weddings

I've been talkin 2 this guy I met on the net for abt 2 months now.He's very sweet and has a gr8 personality.He told me he had developed strong feelins 4me after we spent a couple of hours on the webcam to each other.
We went on a date on Saturday and it was great.I thought it went really well and he was paying a lot of attention to me and he was a real gentleman. I thought that his body language was positive 2 cos he was leaning towards me over the table and making lots of eye contact.At the end of the date he gave me a hug and it wasn't a casual hug but a real warm hug, which made me think that he must like me.
That night I only got a few texts off him,one of which referred to me as 'baby' but I've heard nothing since.I was on MSN last night and he said hey to me as soon as I signed in,told me he'd had a good weekend and didn't talk to me much after so I went offline..
But I don't know what this means? Did he like me? Is he still interested? Should I talk to him? What should I do?

2007-01-29 01:29:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im letting her go. now i been in a certian lifestyle (the settled down type) for 3 years and i have no real friends because of her where do i start? its been a long time since i was single and i have no idea where to start? im in a new town with nobody to go to the movies with even. im in barrie ontario boring place especially when your new to town damn feels like life just stopped on me helpppppppppppp

2007-01-29 01:29:19 · 2 answers · asked by lovetwosweat 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok a while back I asked you guys if I should tell my bf if I loved him. After reading what every1 said I waited 4 the right time 4 me.
So I tell him - we r in bed, just chatting & I just come out & say I love u to him, he smiled, & gave me a big hug, then said "I’m falling in love with u", since then (it was just after xmas) I have said it 1 other time.
I don’t want 2 rush him, so I’m just getting on with things. But I’m finding now that it’s getting really hard for me, I don’t really know how he feels about me, & it really hurts. I'm finding its on the tip of my tongue so much now, & I’m having to hold it back, as like I said I don’t want to say it 2 much, as he might feel I am pushing/rushing him.
What do I do? Do I just continue 2 wait or do I say something.
I’m finding myself holding back my feelings and I don’t like this. I think its coming between our relationship 2.

Please help!
x

2007-01-29 01:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by Jelly 2 in Singles & Dating

Valentines Day is my birthday and I will be turning 18. My boyfriend and I of two years have broken up and Im afriad that i will have to spend it alone. Got any ideas on what singles can do on this wonderful day?

2007-01-29 01:28:40 · 4 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I married almost 3 months ago. He's changing day to day. When we got married he became more controlling. Not jealous or following me or anything like that but, definitely more controlling. He told me numerous times before we got married that he was going to stop smoking (pot) and even tried and did. Now that we are married he does it all of the time and I asked him why he tried to stop b4 we got married and now he smokes all the time and doesn't care how it makes me feel, he told me now we are married and I can c the true him. Also, he won't take responsibility for anything he does wrong, it is always my fault. If I try to talk about issues we have he says that I'm just trying to start an argument. Also, I can come home from work and if he feels like being touched or talked to then I can touch or talk to him but, if not and I try to he gets mean about me leaving him alone. I'm a church girl and he used to hold the cuss words in front of me. Now, he just lets them fly and even calls me whore and tells me to shut the f*c* up quite often. Last night we were watching a movie on 2 seperate couches (always snuggled during a movie b4 we got married), I asked him 2 come lay on the couch with me and he sayed he might get 2 comfy and fall asleep. Then, when it came time 2 go 2 bed he was extremely awake & ready for sex. I said no, I was too tired ( just hurt from him not snuggling w/ me). I told him he doesn't spend time with me like he did b4 we got married. I told him that I come home from work and try 2 talk 2 him but, he just watches T.V. or plays PS2, he said that I start talking 2 him while he is trying 2 watch something. I told him that I don't care about T.V. I've missed him all day and would like 2 talk 2 him. He said that I can talk to him on commercials. On Saturday, we got into an argument and he punched the steering wheel in our truck and broke it. A few minutes later he told me he wanted a divorce. Of course he didn't want a divorce, that was just so I would beg him not to leave and I did. Sunday turned out about the same way as Saturday, he said he was leaving for a while and I told him that I don't care what happens I was just tired of the arguing and asked him not to leave. He stayed. Yesterday, I felt like he was pushing his control limits a little. With a comment here or there about something I could or could not do. I'm worried now that he thinks he has a lot more control over me. Since I'm the one that asked him to stay. Any thoughts? Also, he made a comment about me calling and talking to my parents all of the time. I talk to my parents about twice a day at the most and it's usually not even when I'm with him. Any thoughts

2007-01-29 01:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think its possible for people to end relationships that shouldn't end and then be in separate places. One admits their continuing love, even for years, and the other denies but still considers that person their one true love. What do you think?

2007-01-29 01:26:24 · 3 answers · asked by Oz Billy 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boy friend and I have been together for about 5 months but I'm not allowed to have a boy friend till I'm 16 so I hid it from my mom for about 2 months. then she found out but didn't tell my dad. so a few days ago my boy friend came over but my mom came home early and i got caught. my mom doesn't exactly trust me any more and I've been lieing to my dad for 5 months (I'm really close to my family so this whole situation is really bothering me) so the ultimate question is.....should I break up with him and wait till I'm 16 or stay with him since my mom already knows we're together????????

2007-01-29 01:25:36 · 20 answers · asked by floydygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 01:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by marie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 01:22:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 01:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by Sachin 1 in Friends

but she only calls me every 2 to 3 weeks it not like it everyday if it was everyday or even every few days but no she calles me every 2 to3 weeks to find out of how my unborn child is doing...... her uncle is my babys daddy and were not together anymore.. yesterday she called me up and was talking and she asked me if I have talk to her uncle latley and I told her no bec it true i have not talk to him seance the day he called it off with me.... and then she told me that he told her that he is not going to b at the hospital when r baby is born.... and he will not sign the birth paper bec he does not want anything to do with the baby... I dont think he realy said that I think she is just trying to get to my head.... I think she is just trying to start **** with me and her uncle... what do u all think ? then she asked me if I know the sex of the baby yet and if I started to get stuff for the baby yet and I told her no.... what do u think and should i not tell her anymore about me baby?

2007-01-29 01:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend in the whole world tells me a lot of stuff I really don't want to hear about. Well, I don't really mind giving her advice--but last night I didn't even know how to begin. She said her husband was wanting to experiment sexually in ways she wasn't comfortable with, she did really elaborate further. She was upset because he tried something new on her without asking her first, or even bringing it up. Whatever it was it really messed up her evening and freaked her out. So now she's kind of scared to have sex with him again because she thinks he might try it again and she doesn't want that. My best friend is 22, she's rather quiet and a little shy. She says she thinks she's not freaky enough for him and is worried he will get bored with her and wanted to know what I thought she should do...first about how to talk to him about what freaked her out, and then two how to make things exciting for him and comfortable for her.

2007-01-29 01:20:28 · 6 answers · asked by Destiny 3 in Singles & Dating