can any one suggest me,how i can become more talkative and friendly with other people.?

Question

i always like sitting alone and hardly talk with others or make new friends..how can i change myself ?

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with being quiet. I don't like to be around a lot of people and when I am, I'm quiet as well. That doesn't mean I'm unfriendly. I like to think about what I say, not just talk air. I don't have a lot of friends, but I do have friends who would do anything for me as I for them. Try to avoid the crowds and seek one person to start a friendship with. Yes, you will have to overcome any uncomfortable feeling to get what you want. What do you like to do? See if there is someone who shares this interest. I like to bowl. So I joined a bowling league of about 5 women. Out of them, I made good friends with one, the others are aquaintances. Also, search the qualities you're looking for and make changes to be just like that.

Answer 2

talk to everyone, start out with older people, like over 70, they usually are very accepting to everyone.

I started by going to grocery stores and talking to the customers, asking if they needed help out, talked about prices, etc. Maybe talk to men about cars, great when you are waiting in long lines at store.Women about coupons, soap operas, or whatever.
After you have gained some confidence, start talking to younger people and work your way down to your own age group.

people might think that this is a strange approach, but nothing gives you more confidence than talking to people who you know won't think you are stupid, or will say the wrong thing to.
Isn't that basically what you are looking for......acceptance.
Why not start by making yourself feel better ,and in return putting a smile on an older persons face as well. Sometimes people avoid talking with them, and I am sure they would appreciate it.

Answer 3

Find a volunteer job where you have to talk, for example, working at a booth, etc. Join a Toastmasters group.

Also, remember when you're around people at work (during lunch or breaks), or at casual gatherings--it's the problems and worries that bind us together (not detailed, but a comment here and there). Make sure in conversation that you are a good listener, also.

Answer 4

That is not hard sometime I don't like to be bothered either. Suggestion: When you hear a topic, make a comment and take it from there. I am pretty sure someone out that crowd will interest you. Or you can start off by smiling. That''s not hard. Talking to people you can learn so many things and they can learn from you as well. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Lift your head up and smile.
Don't be afraid to meet other people's gaze.
Be confident within yourself, and people will enjoy your company.
Don't be afraid to start up conversations - without expectation. ie. don't jump in and ask people to be your friend after only a few minutes of conversation. Just be natural, and don't worry if it's the last time you see those people, karma is a brilliant thing.

Answer 6

First, consciously and repeated practices reduce your inhibitions that prevent you from reaching out to someone. Try to smile every time you meet someone. Say hello someone keeping your face bright. These you try first, then you will yourself learn the trade in the course of time.

Answer 7

Yeah, I do the same thing.

It is just strike up conversations, laugh, smile... get comfortable before opening up to other people. Tell them funny stories, such and such.

Answer 8

You need to drink more alcohol. It will make you talk more and you will make all sorts of new friends, some of whom you may remember later. It may also make you dance badly and vomit a lot but you can't win them all.

Answer 9

you should try to talk loud , I mean making some exercices at home, hearing your self speaking loud and clear... I`ve heard that helps you gaining trust.

Answer 10

just start talking about things most people like, sports or the news... or cartoons lol.