i had an online relationship with this guy for more than 2 yrs.
We've felt like we are almost close to each other.
Last year, he told me about this current affair he had with a married women.
It was hard to accept this...but he said that its all about sex and I have forgiven him.
I thought all is over with her, but the girl is really after him.
My heart crushed and i really got sick. My plans to see him suddenly change now.
i dont know if i can trust him again, though i still have feelings for him.
I think you should meet someone first before we really fall for any person online. And when meeting them make sure your with someone for safety.
2007-01-29 01:35:51 · 16 answers · asked by mplus2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt meet someone online!!! Cuz they turn out like this!
2007-01-29 01:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Online relationships have so many weak points...how can you believe anything you are told? You have no knowledge of this person to judge whether anything is true....and how can you forgive a person you have never even met....this is a pretend relationship!
You are living in a make believe world and that is pretty scary. Why do you need this "distant" person in place of the real thing?
Just the fact that this person says he had an affair with a married woman should tell you (if it is true) what he is like. Do you think he would never repeat it again? Hardly....you have seen his true character.....which should be a huge warning to forget this guy before he really hurts you next!
Instead, get off the computer and go meet some nice guy among some nice friends!...Sounds like you are spending too much time in the wrong place....it can take over your life if you let it!
2007-02-06 02:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have summed your situation up well.... meet them before giving them your heart, and be sure and keep safety in mind when you meet. If you were to meet this guy in person, there may be no connection at all. I have met 20 some people from the Internet and only connected with 2....and made 3 friends. Online however, i connected with all of them. It is very different in person.
2007-01-29 09:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if they work, but I'm trying one now. I have a guy in Iraq who I have never met, but we are being honest from the very beginning and telling everything about ourselves. So we will see where it goes from there.
I haven't told him about the almost-affair that I am having with a married man, which is also only about sex. I need to get laid, and the guy wants to f-u-c-k me, so I didn't think it was that big of a deal.
Now that I am in a almost-relationship, I feel bad about it. This guy told me that he wanted a person who has good morals, and I told him I did. After reading this, I think that I need to tell him.
2007-02-06 08:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not safe to have online relationships, you dont know who is on the other line, it could be a creepy 40 year old guy that is saying he is 16.
2007-02-06 09:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met the man of my dreams five years ago online. I moved in with him about four years ago and now we are getting married May of this year. So, yes some online relationships can work.
2007-01-29 09:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by fhockey1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you really want it to work you have to meet these guys from a proper dating web site. you both have to be honest and want to make it work.
also, one time or another, you have to be able to meet eahother as a first step ito making it work in a relationship. then you have to both decide if you still want it to work.
most men just want sex but you really get some on there that are trustful.
id stick to meeting someone in person and building a relationship from there. at least you know what you get from start
2007-01-29 09:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that situation i dont think its bout meeting someone online, if the guy is like that is like that, personally i would not forgive anyone that betrays me... n about online relations i met my boyfriend on line i have been with him for 2 years and now i live with him.. no regrets :)
2007-01-29 09:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Maniaka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on-line relationships can be a 'high' risk way to do it...you can meet a lot of 'weird' dudes !!! Thus i've never tried it but heard of a view occasions were all turned out fantastic & lead to marriage! I'd say its a 50/50 ratio...be careful!
2007-01-29 09:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your answer lies in your question, before u go into relationship u got to know a person very well.
Have a nice time.
2007-01-29 09:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by DJ101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋