Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My BF broke up with me last week, which he does this at least once a month so he can have his space. I called him & asked him to please take me back. I cried, begged & even admitted to all of my wrongs. He was really mean to me. He started laughing & even told me that he wasn't going to miss me.

So I called his cellular service & changed it so that whenever he called anyone his phone number would show up blocked. I just was so damn mad, but I consider that mild for what I could've done. Was this so bad, it's not like he'll ever no it was me. I just thought it would be a funny thing to do. Has anyone else ever found satisfaction in a little revenge?

2007-01-29 02:08:23 · 22 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i are both sophmores inc ollege and have been dating for over 2 years. A few days ago we both decided to take a break to focus on school. and he has been under alot of stress (he has alot of units and works over 40 hours a week) well he sat in my work last ngiht doing nothign for over 2 1/2 hours... to tell me its oaver. befroe that we were both happy abotu the break. and he told me there would be a good chance of gettign bcak togheter. (he always keeps to his words) he always joked abotu how he wanted to be single for the rest of his life...i wanted to marry him and he wante to marry me.. (used to i guess) but he told me its over between us. he was the only person who i trusted. i dont have any friends and im not close with family. now im all alone. we were eachothers first love and first everything. he says hes going to try to stop loving me. is that possible? when we were eachothers first love. i texted him last night and asked if he loved me and he said.

2007-01-29 02:08:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok ladies, i have a question for you. my ex girlfriend broke up with me about six weeks ago because she felt certain things were missing in the relationship. i now realize that she is right and i also realize that everything she felt that was missing i also want in a relationship. if you were to break up with a guy and then say three or four months later you two start talking again, and you realize that he really has changed and that he changed for himself and didn't change just to make you happy, would you ever consider getting back together with that person if you knew that he changed all for the better and that he changed for himself because he wants everything in a relationship that you do?

2007-01-29 02:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I married almost 3 months ago. He's changing day to day. When we got married he became more controlling. Not jealous or following me or anything like that but, definitely more controlling. He told me numerous times before we got married that he was going to stop smoking (pot) and even tried and did. Now that we are married he does it all of the time and I asked him why he tried to stop b4 we got married and now he smokes all the time and doesn't care how it makes me feel, he told me now we are married and I can c the true him. Also, he won't take responsibility for anything he does wrong, it is always my fault. If I try to talk about issues we have he says that I'm just trying to start an argument. Also, I can come home from work and if he feels like being touched or talked to then I can touch or talk to him but, if not and I try to he gets mean about me leaving him alone. I'm a church girl and he used to hold the cuss words in front of me. Now, he just lets them fly and even calls me whore and tells me to shut the f*c* up quite often. Last night we were watching a movie on 2 seperate couches (always snuggled during a movie b4 we got married), I asked him 2 come lay on the couch with me and he sayed he might get 2 comfy and fall asleep. Then, when it came time 2 go 2 bed he was extremely awake & ready for sex. I said no, I was too tired ( just hurt from him not snuggling w/ me). I told him he doesn't spend time with me like he did b4 we got married. I told him that I come home from work and try 2 talk 2 him but, he just watches T.V. or plays PS2, he said that I start talking 2 him while he is trying 2 watch something. I told him that I don't care about T.V. I've missed him all day and would like 2 talk 2 him. He said that I can talk to him on commercials. On Saturday, we got into an argument and he punched the steering wheel in our truck and broke it. A few minutes later he told me he wanted a divorce. Of course he didn't want a divorce, that was just so I would beg him not to leave and I did. Sunday turned out about the same way as Saturday, he said he was leaving for a while and I told him that I don't care what happens I was just tired of the arguing and asked him not to leave. He stayed. Yesterday, I felt like he was pushing his control limits a little. With a comment here or there about something I could or could not do. I'm worried now that he thinks he has a lot more control over me. Since I'm the one that asked him to stay. Any thoughts? Also, he made a comment about me calling and talking to my parents all of the time. I talk to my parents about twice a day at the most and it's usually not even when I'm with him. Any thoughts

2007-01-29 02:07:55 · 1 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do i tell one of my close friend that i have the hots for her? I love her to death as a friend but i am not sure what to do?

2007-01-29 02:07:49 · 5 answers · asked by Leah's mommy 2 in Friends

Im planning our wedding and we want to do a 50's style theme. we have a ska band thats going to do some swing music and the boys will have zoot suits.... but i need other ideas to make it more 50's style. Help Please!!! Include web sites if you know any!?!!

2007-01-29 02:07:42 · 12 answers · asked by wp_ashro7 1 in Weddings

My live-in boyfriend has two children from a previous marriage. Unfortunately, his kids are in a different country and he hasn't seen them in 7 months. He misses them terribly. His ex-wife agreed to accompany them to the US so that they could stay with us for a week and 1/2 in March. She and her new husband were to stay close by in a hotel while the kids stay with us. Now she's changed her mind and says the hotel is too expensive (even though my boyfriend has very generously offered to SPLIT the cost of the hotel) and is going to have to stay in our apartment. There is no privacy in our apartment as there is an open floorplan. I've never met the kids nor the ex nor the new husband. I'm not sure how to react to this situation. Better yet, I'm not sure how I'm GOING to react after several days together with my boyfriends kids and his ex...all under one roof!! Am I wrong to be extremely concerned?

2007-01-29 02:07:40 · 15 answers · asked by gin_and_tonic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't help it, it takes me ages to be comfortable around guys. I'm 18 but haven't had a single boyfriend in high school. Yet I have really adored at least two or three guys. Today on my farewell I realized how hopelessly in love I am with at least two people. They have always been incredibly sweet and nice. I don't know whether I like them simply because they are nice, or like them and lust for them, or am... in love? And I don't know what I want to do about it. My 12th was troubled, so I mostly stayed at home, which doesn't matter since it is a totally exam-based year, and internal assessment has no value. (I'm in the Indian CBSE system.) I meet these people at tutions twice a week and I have two months till March final exams. Though they aren't going anywhere from Delhi, can anyone suggest a meaningful way I can be better friends with them before that time?

2007-01-29 02:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by In-Sync 3 in Singles & Dating

I get a little nervous on dates and tend to overthink everything I am saying and it usually turns to alot of akward silences. Is there any tricks or anything I could do to relax and just be comfortable?

2007-01-29 02:07:19 · 12 answers · asked by styler 2 in Singles & Dating

My co-worker is writing a thesis paper on this...

2007-01-29 02:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Complex Simplicity 1 in Marriage & Divorce

16 year old girl who've been living in a small room with a very fussy mother for the past 8 years.

2007-01-29 02:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by Saffron Boudoir 2 in Family

what do i do?

ok story so far this dude on myspace sent this
"i was just playin aruon the site n i saw ur sweet pic.my name is ade .and i will like us to go into a relation ship as in been together.if u are interested just reply .thankx "

and well me not intressted replied as a joke with this thinkin that he'd guess that i didn't care

"ok, but you have to send a registration fee of £29.99 "

and his reply was

"ok there is no problem but i will like to see u face to face if u willling of see me pls i needed ur help in which i know dat u are the only one i believed onpon pls reply me back or call ".....

so you see my problem.. can anyone help?

2007-01-29 02:06:01 · 10 answers · asked by Lescaa 3 in Singles & Dating

we want 2 marry eachother but it is quiet impossible. give some idaes 2 solve my problem. PLS HELP ME OUT!!!!

2007-01-29 02:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by niki 1 in Weddings

used to like this guy and I could have had him but I got scared because I had trust issues after another guy cheated on me. Well this guy eventually got a g/f and now their broken up. This whole thing started a year ago Recently I've been thinking about him and I miss him, but I lost his number and hes never online. We go to the same community college but I havent seen him there yet. So obviously its not easy to just talk to him about this. I wish I could hate him, but its too hard and I still care about him. What do I do?

As friends we could talk about everything and we had so much fun, and now I feel like I made a huge mistake.


by time I admitted my feelings he was with her but he was happy I liked him and he felt the same but was too shy to say anything

2007-01-29 02:05:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl i like said she's not ready for a relationship but would tell me when she is. Valentines day is comming up and i will be hundreds of miles away from her. Should i ask her to be my valentine. I don't want to go overboard but how should i do this and what should i do. Should i send her something. Ideas?

2007-01-29 02:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:05:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This seems to affect me in all areas of life. I work out, but am not satisfied with the results. I make a good living, but never quite have enough money. I'm married to a wonderful woman, but I want so much more sexually. When I work on a project, I'm never quite happy with the results. I'd appreciate any advice.

Thanks! Ben

2007-01-29 02:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by idlikeyourhelp69 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:05:12 · 2 answers · asked by ladykelly323 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf is in the hospital, after a seirious acident, and i realy love her and i wanto see her, but my parents hate that im gay, and would never let me go and see her. should i go anyway and deal with the concequinces?

2007-01-29 02:04:35 · 5 answers · asked by teddy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by nica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 02:02:25 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 02:02:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am dating this guy...well i don't know if we're even dating right now because when we started going out, about a week later he told me he wanted to be friends. so i was like ok sure. so then i found out if fkked one of my friends. and i asked him about it and he said he was drunk and he didn't mean to fkk a ugly bth like that.

so then the other day he came over with his friend and we were smoking and next thing u know we're all over each other right in front of his friend. but he is known as a cheater and liar but for some reason i care about him way too much to let him go. help??? plz.

2007-01-29 02:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

farys alot while she sleeps, except I am pretty sure she was awake this morning when she was doing it because I heard her yawn like a minute before she did it...it was really really bad, loud and smelled like burnt cabbage...she does this all the time, but never acknowledges it. I have tried to tell her, but she denies it and blames it on ME !!! Any advice?

2007-01-29 02:00:30 · 11 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Singles & Dating

Ordinarily if a person were crying every day that would be a red flag to suggest seeking help for depression. The thing is, right now there are a lot of situational factors influencing my 'teariness'. These include (and of course each has quite a story that goes along with it): I am just about five months pregnant. My husband and I have some pretty big issues which have brought us to counselling, which is not progressing. Our daughter will be 2 in a month and of course she can be a big challenge. And along with the marriage there are some serious financial and employment concerns. The thing is, there is only so much I can do about most of this. That makes me feel frustrated and hopeless. What to do, what to do? I appreciate your considerate responses. Please keep glib replies and trite answers to yourselves.

2007-01-29 02:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 01:58:58 · 25 answers · asked by tmkwllms 1 in Singles & Dating

I'v droped enough hints over the last month so whose going to give me the gun make me happy or make me cry, don't forget ladies plenty of gusto panache and kisses. Alright then Heres some for you x x x x x x x x see, Old Red ain't tight with them there little wet kisses is he. Noooooooooo Guys no kisses from you but that don't stop you joining my little web party does it. Hey!
I'M 26 today, 26 today (well tommorow actually, but still whose counting) who will give me the key of the door cause I won't be 26 no more ect ect. Well anyway at least you can't here me believe me thats a bonus. I'm in the mood for dancing romancing da da da
Guess what? I'v got tommorow off and I 'm going to hit that bottle. So, see you in the Auctioneer in Greenwich, I'm the tall good looking Guy dancing on the table. I,m in the mood for dancing romancing da da ect ect.

2007-01-29 01:58:30 · 26 answers · asked by Redmonk 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 01:58:15 · 30 answers · asked by Adarsh S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My roomate has had her "current" boyfriend staying in our apartment for a week ..He wa walking around the house NAKED! staying in bed watching tv all day while she is off at work and no one is home. Note to self she has only known him for 3 months and her last boyfriend was staying at our house for over a week and when I asked her about it she said his mom was going through some stuff and he needed to get away..the real storie is he was thrown into jail for stealing from his mom and was living out of his car! She would let him hang out all week while every one was at work..I was on vacation when this happend.

IOn top of that she is a pig!!

What should I do?

2007-01-29 01:58:14 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family

well their is the boy i fancy i mean were friends, hes not a really foward guy in relationships hes never gone out before, hes 15 and i see him often, i mean last week he came to my house and we were sitting in the opposite direction but he seemed a bit nervous and we didnt talk to each other i think he was a bit embarassed i dont know but at the end of the day he said thanks because i cooked the dinner and gave me a big smile i mean on the way to school when i see him i get shy and i do look at him but he looks at me then he looks away quickly, i mean on the way to school i said hi to him and he smiled and nodded his head back to me, im so depressed all my friends said i should move on i mean i asked his mate who he fancies but his mate wont tell me, i mean i wondering if he fancies me or not and im getting really depressed do you think he fancies me or not i should i move on

2007-01-29 01:57:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends