2007-01-29 02:02:25 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it from someone with experience in this area, get a dog or cat to keep you from being lonely. The dating service works for a few months, but after that you will still be lonely, only now you will have a bunch of losers in your life desperately clinging to you, sucking the life out of you, and making you wish you had gotten a dog or cat instead.
2007-01-29 02:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating services can be great....depending on the service you use. I personally met my husband through one...it was a video dating service called Great Expectations. And we have been together almost 20 years (17 of them married). I don't know if they are still out there, but they were very professional and really took care of their clients...especially if you ran into a problem! You have to be very careful there are a lot of weirdo's out there. I don't know if computer services are as safe as dealing with real people in a real office.
I have to admit I met some really great guys (including my hubby) that I would never have met in my normal day to day life. It was fun to do as well. I wasn't driven by loneliness to join, I just wasn't meeting anyone....and neither were any of my also single friends. So I took a chance, spent some money, and haven't regretted one moment or dollar since. Good luck on whatever you decide to do...just always be careful and protect yourself.
2007-01-29 02:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that those are your only two options. The best place for anyone to meet like-minded people is an organization which is involved in an issue for which you have a passion. If you are interested in politics, you should do volunteer work for a political candidate or a political party. If you are interested in a cause, like clean water, join an organization that is working on that cause. If you want to learn a new skill, like creative writing, or a new language, take a class.
And it probably goes without saying, but don't act needy. That definitely scares people away. Good luck.
2007-01-29 02:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a dating service
2007-01-29 02:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend Jenn and i had decided that we would give it 6 months, then join a dating service, but about a week after making that decision i started dating. Either way, i guess it wouldn't hurt. I say go with e-harmony. I have heard many good things about that site.
2007-01-29 02:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a dating service y would you want to spend the rest of your life lonely? = )
2007-01-29 02:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should join a dating service
2007-01-29 02:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie M B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is that it is better not to use dating service. Because you dont know what kind of people you are going to meet. If you are a spiritual person, then you should be able to meet guys from church or local community activites. Or if you are party type of person, try the clubs ( i wouldnt recommend this). Or Try Bars, or singles mingles events
2007-01-29 02:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least try to dating service
2007-01-29 02:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real dating is better than any of those dating services.
2007-01-29 02:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋