ok ladies, i have a question for you. my ex girlfriend broke up with me about six weeks ago because she felt certain things were missing in the relationship. i now realize that she is right and i also realize that everything she felt that was missing i also want in a relationship. if you were to break up with a guy and then say three or four months later you two start talking again, and you realize that he really has changed and that he changed for himself and didn't change just to make you happy, would you ever consider getting back together with that person if you knew that he changed all for the better and that he changed for himself because he wants everything in a relationship that you do?
2007-01-29 02:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Changing for her is one thing, but when change happens to benefit the both of you, that's even better. Your alot smarter than most men out there.
Good Luck!
2007-01-29 02:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is how can you make sure he really changed and he did it because he felt it... There's really no way to make sure ... I probably wouldn't go back but that's just me
2007-01-29 10:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe. but i really think it has to be more than 3 or 4 months that you may have concluded this to be true. take some time and enjoy your single life. do lots of other stuff and date around. dont get all whoreish but have fun.
2007-01-29 10:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by ilfo59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would... Its great that a guy would make the change for me... BUT it he changes for himself in a good way.. that means he cares what his future holds... and if he cares that much about himslef.. then how much would he care about me?
2007-01-29 10:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i would!
2007-01-29 10:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by T-NEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋