My roomate has had her "current" boyfriend staying in our apartment for a week ..He wa walking around the house NAKED! staying in bed watching tv all day while she is off at work and no one is home. Note to self she has only known him for 3 months and her last boyfriend was staying at our house for over a week and when I asked her about it she said his mom was going through some stuff and he needed to get away..the real storie is he was thrown into jail for stealing from his mom and was living out of his car! She would let him hang out all week while every one was at work..I was on vacation when this happend.
IOn top of that she is a pig!!
What should I do?
2007-01-29 01:58:14 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes the only solution is to find yourself a new place to live. If you are the only one that signed the lease , that may leave them out in the cold , but you definitely have to think of yourself at this point.
This will obviously cause tension between you and your friend , but I believe it will be less than if you asked them to move.
2007-01-29 02:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Vincent W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its definately time to sit down with your roommate (and only your roommate) and talk this out immediately. It is your place too and you have the right to live comfortably and unafraid in your own home. If she can not respect that, either find a new roommate or a new place. She will only continue to walk all over you and bring home these "boyfriends." Remember that your safety is at stake here. Do not accept excuses or tantrums for her behavior. You can never be sure that one of these "boyfriends" will not hurt or rape you.
2007-01-29 02:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk to establish some ground rules. If she is not willing to make the necessary changes, then one of you will need to move. Whose name is the lease in? By the way--when you request a meeting to set ground rules, be prepared--she may have some gripes about you, too. You may have to be flexible here. Good luck.
2007-01-29 02:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another roomate and let her live with her boyfriends for awhile. I wouldn't put up with that. He's lounging around your house eating your food and using your hot water, electricity, ect and not picking up after themselves. Not in my house!
2007-01-29 02:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell u what I will do kick his a** on the streets in walking around NAKED watch TV while she go to work girl u crazy.
2007-01-29 02:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by meatball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mel., is she paying half of the rent., if she is there isn,t a whole lot you can do about it , other than that ,sit down aand have a good talk to her . i mean a GOOD TALK,talk with her , there are alot if , ands , or buts, to wanting your own space in your home. so i would talk to her about it , if that doesn,t work , throw her out , . if indeed the apt , is in your name , you can politly ask to leave....
2007-01-29 02:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by david w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the room changed for a changed environment to have peace.
2007-01-29 02:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down. Set some rules and if your roommate can't follow them, find a new roommate.
2007-01-29 02:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by hydroco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow this roomie of yours picks out real winners... time to make the next step
2007-01-29 02:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick them mtheorfcukres out.
2007-01-29 02:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Glamour&Glory 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋