My BF broke up with me last week, which he does this at least once a month so he can have his space. I called him & asked him to please take me back. I cried, begged & even admitted to all of my wrongs. He was really mean to me. He started laughing & even told me that he wasn't going to miss me.
So I called his cellular service & changed it so that whenever he called anyone his phone number would show up blocked. I just was so damn mad, but I consider that mild for what I could've done. Was this so bad, it's not like he'll ever no it was me. I just thought it would be a funny thing to do. Has anyone else ever found satisfaction in a little revenge?
2007-01-29 02:08:23 · 22 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally that's not that bad at all.. I did alot worse to my ex..
First time I got revenge he was in jail for his 4th DUI and my best friend was getting married. He told me if I needed any money I could get money out of his savings account.. Out of $5000.00 I left him with less than $200.00.. and the very last time I had his cell phone password changed so I could listen to messages, changed he incoming message and changed his caller id phone # to my # so when the other girls he was cheating on me with called him back they got me.. And last I ran up 2 of his credit cards on a little shopping spree..
I know all of that was wrong but it was sooooo much fun..
2007-01-29 02:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by expensv_1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a c*nt. I can see why he broke up with you. I wouldn't miss you, either, I'd be glad to be rid of you.
"... but I consider that mild for what I could've done." Why the hell would he want to be around someone capable of what you did or worse? I truly hope he warns any guy you could ever possibly know what kind of a person you are.
"I cried, begged & even admitted to all of my wrongs." Obviously you treated him badly before you broke up with you, so how do you even come by the notion that you have anything to seek revenge for? It soundes like if anyone was wronged and deserved to seek revenge, then it would have been him.
2007-01-30 06:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First forget about him. If he is leaving you on average once a month, then he really can't be serious about you. As for revenge, an on the spot bit can seem fun and even make you feel good at the time, but revenge can be all consuming. In the end it makes you seem desperate, petty and like that psycho ex-girlfriend that no one else wants to date now.
2007-01-29 02:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was not horrible. But be careful when you are planning on revenge. Karma says that it will come back to you. Better to leave revenge to the "big guy", it may take awhile but it always happens. My first husband cheated on me and really hurt me. We divorced when I had a 4 year old and a 4 week old baby. Well, it took 18 years, but he did get his. He just got married and his wife cheated on him and it almost caused him to lose his job as a police officer. She did alot of damage to him and I didn't have to do anything!!! He is miserable.
2007-01-29 02:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you just learned a valuable lesson - thatyou can't argue your way out of 'dumped'. Consider it for the best and move on.
Second, revenge might make you feel better in the short term, but in the long run, it will leave you feeling hollow. Learn to let things go. You'll be a much happier person.
2007-01-29 02:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't need this guy. He's a jerk. Secondly, NEVER beg a guy to take you back. If someone breaks up with you, it's his loss, he used up his one chance, you're off to find someone new. You have to respect yourself. Third, revenge only shows your lack of character. Revenge does not bring satisfaction, it brings embarrassment and regret.
Get out there and meet new guys.
2007-01-29 02:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might sound like the right thing to do,but it will come back on you.it's not worth the aggravation.
if your a child it might be the right thing to do in a child's mind,but as an adult it's wrong.games are for children,not adults.
as we all get older we all look back at the dumb things in our life that we've done and not 2 proud of it.we all learn from our mistakes.
i would call the phone company back and fix it.let him out of your mind and find some-one else ,move on .if he like games tell him to buy a monopoly game. you won, not him.
2007-01-29 02:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but if u have access to his service why didn't u just turn it off??? Sometimes it feels good to seek revenge and what u did wasn't harsh.
BTW - if he leaves every now and then don't ask him to comeback. Guys that are like that from the beginning nerver change
2007-01-29 02:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by This is life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah!!!
I love revenge....as long as no one gets seriously hurt, than I think its just good payback.
There was a guy that I used to date that would string me along in every way he could. I got so sick of it, and fell out of "like" with him. I played along with him, started doing the airhead/ditzy thing he liked...just to pull him in.
Now, he's vested all of his feelings...he feels he has me wrapped around his finger.
Now, I wait minutes until we're supposed to go out and cancel. I actually have him begging to see me!!! He even thanked me for returning his call!!! HAHAHAHAHA....
I switched the roles on him. Now take that!!!
Yes, yes, yes...it can be quite sweet!
2007-01-29 02:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge is not letting him know you miss him. Get yourself a new man and look good doing it. That will hit him harder then anything.
2007-01-29 02:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋