I can't help it, it takes me ages to be comfortable around guys. I'm 18 but haven't had a single boyfriend in high school. Yet I have really adored at least two or three guys. Today on my farewell I realized how hopelessly in love I am with at least two people. They have always been incredibly sweet and nice. I don't know whether I like them simply because they are nice, or like them and lust for them, or am... in love? And I don't know what I want to do about it. My 12th was troubled, so I mostly stayed at home, which doesn't matter since it is a totally exam-based year, and internal assessment has no value. (I'm in the Indian CBSE system.) I meet these people at tutions twice a week and I have two months till March final exams. Though they aren't going anywhere from Delhi, can anyone suggest a meaningful way I can be better friends with them before that time?
2007-01-29 02:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by In-Sync 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why rush it. You have taken your time so far, don't rush it now. Guys don't reach their maturity until in their twenties. Remain friends with the two males that you are interested in. I know you think you might "love" one of them, but believe me you have an image in your head that is different from how they are in reality. Take your time and be cautious. Men are devious and it's hard sometimes to tell if they are sincere or not. Two months is not long enough to know someone that well and you would be better off to wait until after your finals are finished before starting a relationship with anyone. This is a process that takes a lot of time. Woman who rush into relationships usually live to regret it. You are way ahead of the game and on your way to finding someone worth the wait. Good luck and thank you.
2007-01-29 02:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had a boyfriend in highschool. I actually didn't start dating until I was about to graduate. Why begin a relationship that might not last b/c you are about to start working full-time or school full-time. Have fun. I would date, but not get serious with anyone at high school, especially since you are about to graduate. Get to know these guys first and see how you feel about them. Spark a conversation with them through something you have in common like classes, teachers, or just ask a question. **** luck!
2007-01-29 10:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm the same way.
iv known this guy for like 4 years and im just now warming up to him.
2007-01-29 10:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by tiffanyblahblah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask them to hang out with you. dont worry about being a little slow when to comes to love. i only had my first kiss when i was like 20.
just relax, be cool, calm, and talk a little more to them, then ask them to hang out.
2007-01-29 10:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by charlea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't be scared to talk around guy **** I had my first kiss when i was 7years old u might find some guy or women u like.
2007-01-29 10:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by meatball 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋