I've been talkin 2 this guy I met on the net for abt 2 months now.He's very sweet and has a gr8 personality.He told me he had developed strong feelins 4me after we spent a couple of hours on the webcam to each other.
We went on a date on Saturday and it was great.I thought it went really well and he was paying a lot of attention to me and he was a real gentleman. I thought that his body language was positive 2 cos he was leaning towards me over the table and making lots of eye contact.At the end of the date he gave me a hug and it wasn't a casual hug but a real warm hug, which made me think that he must like me.
That night I only got a few texts off him,one of which referred to me as 'baby' but I've heard nothing since.I was on MSN last night and he said hey to me as soon as I signed in,told me he'd had a good weekend and didn't talk to me much after so I went offline..
But I don't know what this means? Did he like me? Is he still interested? Should I talk to him? What should I do?
2007-01-29 01:29:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not panick just yet if I was you, give it a couple of days and see if he gets back to you, us women are different to men as in we seem to want definite answers straight away this sometimes can scare a man off you know the old saying treat them mean keep them keen well without the mean try the whatever happens happens attitude, he may then become curious and start making the moves, it very early days so keep your options open hope for nothing and anything you get will be a bonus.
2007-01-29 01:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you this from expericen, sometimes, when throwing out a word like baby or anything else along those lines, he is testing the water, as in he wants to be more personable with you but is not sure if you feel the same. and i take you didnt recipricate the aciton. if you were really into him than maybe you should have replyed with a more personal term of your own to let him know it was welcome. otherwise thats like leaning in for a kiss and getting denyed!
but i agree you should be cautious meeting guys over the internet cause if he was such a good guy, then how come he cant meet someone in person?
2007-01-29 02:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by corEy marsh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You took a huge risk meeting this guy, and from what you said of his body language, it sounded a little worrying.
however, since you said that he seems to have cooled off somewhat since your date, it does seem that something has happened, but it does not necessarily mean that he has gone off you.
is this guy married? may he have got caught out by his wife? or might something else have happened? ie problems at work or health etc, you may have been worried about asking him as you assumed it was you, and he may have felt upset because you didn't ask!
these things are so complicated, but if you have had such a nice e relationship, you should feel as though you can ask him, but these types of relationships aren't easy as we often have a false impression of the other person, so please be prepared for him to say that there was no spark, it is nothing to do with you, and he has given you mixed messages which is dreadfully wrong.
be careful next time you meet him, as i said his strange behaviour may well be masking part of his personality that he has not allowed you to see.
good luck!
2007-01-29 01:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tricky one- but gut instinct would indicate that maybe hes not as interested as he should be - I would imagine he would have made more of an effort if he was interested?
Really you have two options -
1. text him and ask him if he would like to go on another date
OR
2. if your patience are strong - leave it and wait for him to ask you out again!
It sounds like he was into you on the date from what you've said so his behaviour now makes no sense at all!
xx
2007-01-29 01:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never agreed to meeting someone over the net, but it may be possible.
It all sounds like he likes you, but be aware, he could be after taking advantage of you, from appearing sweet.
2007-01-29 01:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying more effective communication (face 2 face, phone), and ask him if there is any point to this relationship. After that you have two options leave him or love him.
2007-01-29 01:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by drsheikh29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still likes you but doesn’t know how to react now that you guys have seen each other. He’s probably nervous or shy.
2007-01-29 01:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not heard from him in a couple of days move on
2007-01-29 01:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Monkeyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all above shhhhhhhhhhh. he wants to no how you feel. you explained what he was like on the date. how where you maybe you wernt responding the way he wants or imagined. he probaly thinks you want to be friends set him straight
2007-01-29 01:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing, don't over react.
he said he had a good time, that is a good sign.
absolutely talk to him, if you like him and want to continue seeing him.
and chances are he is def. still interested.
hope i helped..
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2007-01-29 01:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by HisSweetestSin235 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋