Ok a while back I asked you guys if I should tell my bf if I loved him. After reading what every1 said I waited 4 the right time 4 me.
So I tell him - we r in bed, just chatting & I just come out & say I love u to him, he smiled, & gave me a big hug, then said "I’m falling in love with u", since then (it was just after xmas) I have said it 1 other time.
I don’t want 2 rush him, so I’m just getting on with things. But I’m finding now that it’s getting really hard for me, I don’t really know how he feels about me, & it really hurts. I'm finding its on the tip of my tongue so much now, & I’m having to hold it back, as like I said I don’t want to say it 2 much, as he might feel I am pushing/rushing him.
What do I do? Do I just continue 2 wait or do I say something.
I’m finding myself holding back my feelings and I don’t like this. I think its coming between our relationship 2.
Please help!
x
2007-01-29 01:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by Jelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your BF is in his comfort zone... He has the best of everything so to speak... So he's not likely to commit to anything that he's uncomfortable with... If you are living with someone, sleeping with them, sharing a life and living then it should be with someone you love... This gradual falling in love takes place while you are dating... Then if there are feeling things progress to the point that you are at now... He may be a great guy, but in a way he is using you at the cost of your feelings... You need to have a serious heart to heart talk with him...
2007-01-29 01:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by deakjone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if e sed"im fallin in love with you" then give him time to say it more often to you he might be feeling the same that he doesnt want to say it to much.. if you both start telin each other tht u love each other all the time.. it will fade n then you will worry so just wait no rush!
2007-01-29 02:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out and wait. What's the rush? Don't worry for nothing. Stop the neurosis and wait. It will come, if not, you've lost nothing. If you confront it, it will backfire and you'll be left with nothing.
2007-01-29 01:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your rush with this. The best things come to those who wait.
2007-01-31 22:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing would be to sit down with him and talk to him, it has to be face to face otherwise it's just not going to be effective, you have to let him know exactly how you feel and you have to let him know that he has to let you know how he feels, then you can decide what to do, if he doesn't want to talk about it then maybe it's time to decide if you want to really be in the relationship.
2007-01-29 01:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rusty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just finds it hard to say because he has been hurt in the past. I love my gf to bits but find it hard to tell her because what my ex has done to me and used the fact that I told her i loved her to totally screw me around.
2007-01-29 01:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by Monkeyy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
chill out! he said hes falling in love with you! thats a good sign! you cant pressure him into telling you he loves you! maybe hes waiting for the right time so its special for him!
2007-01-29 03:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by aa_fugitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, if it's a good relationship then it needs to be an honest and open (not that way!) relationship!
2007-01-29 01:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by voodoobluesman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait untill he his ready.Good Luck
2007-02-01 23:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..
well.. i wouldnt say it like all the time, but i wouldn't like stop saying it.
i remember one time i told my bf i loved him and he was like yeah i gtg.. so yeah lol...
but i dont think you have anything to worry about.
can you plz try and help me w. my question...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvjpefWLXc28Qvy1C4AG15_sy6IX?qid=20070129054853AAKrYvU
Thanks.
-Sarah
2007-01-29 01:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by HisSweetestSin235 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋