I have given him several pictures but he never puts them up. He does have pics up of his daughter. Interestingly, when I took his pictures down from my bedroom he got very upset. So should I worry? It means a lot to me, but perhaps men really don't care about that kind of stuff? Any opinions? (oh, and yes I've been told I'm attractive so it's not because I'm a dog, in case you're wondering)
2007-01-29 02:20:05 · 9 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is your real picture on your avatar, I don't see why not.
Are you sure there isn't a little rivalry between his daughter and you?
I just did a mental count of my condo... most of the pictures there are of me, and there is only one of just my wife (but plenty of the two of us). I think this is because she moved into what was my place.
Hmmm, I'm going to have to do something about that. I have two pics of her at my office (a bridal, and one of her at our engagement party), but not more at home.
Sorry, back to your case. I would ask him about it. Don't get pushy and definitely don't demand anything, but ask him calmly.
2007-01-29 06:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe having pictures of you in his home upsets his daughter and that is why he doesn't put them up. You should ask him what is wrong. If you know he isn't married, then you should ask him what is holding him back from putting up the pics. My ex husband is the opposite, he won't put pictures of me up in his home because his girlfriend gets upset, even though he puts them up for our son. So, there may be a problem with his child and his ex (if they are in the picture).
2007-01-29 02:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking a few things:
1) He really isn't that attracted to you, even though you are pretty.
2) He doesn't want your picture to be seen by whoever goes over to his place Are there any other women who visit him at his place?
3) He's changing teams
4) Some other irrational fear about your picture being seen.
2007-01-29 02:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by eyedoc999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to assume that he's divorced. My first instinct is that he is married. If that isn't the case, I think he might believe it will upset his daughter. You don't mention her age. Have you met her?
The other thing I think is maybe he has other girlfriends, or, maybe he still has relations with his wife from time to time and doesn't want her to see it.
Any of these make me uncomfortable. Good luck to you.
2007-01-29 02:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he has someone coming over when you are not around or he is ashamed of you. I would tell him to F*** when he got mad about you taking his pics. down Because I would let him know really quick like, that if I wasn't good enough for him to show off my pics then he wouldn't be good enough to be shown off either.
And by the way don't be so down on yourself over your looks because from the looks of you pic. on here you look just fine. If he don't see this then he needs glasses. Good-Luck
2007-01-29 02:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the same way. I have pics of him everywhere and he doens't keep any of me, but I know in my heart without a doubt he loves me. I think it's just a personality thing. They don't think the same as we do and attach the way they love us to a picture. We tend to show them how we love them by decorating our homes with their face. They show us their love by maybe taking us out to dinner, giving us their paycheck, buying us jewelry..etc. Just try to accept that he shows you love in different ways. ;) HTH.
2007-01-29 02:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a protective thing, if his mates come round he doesnt want them staring at you. Believe me i got ushered round a raf base for the same reason and we're now married
2007-01-29 02:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by silvernightthorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his Daughter has objections. Ask him what's up for Christ sakes.
You can send me one; I'll hang it up!?
2007-01-29 02:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't want his wife to see them.
2007-01-29 02:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋